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Teacher dad

It didn't take John Daynard, an art instructor, long to decide that Florida's schools aren't for him - or for his children.

By SUSAN ASCHOFF
Published December 1, 2006


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John Daynard and his son, Cameron, 6, watch a seahorse in an aquarium in their kitchen. They found the seahorse while boating, and Daynard decided to bring it home to observe for a few days before releasing it back into the gulf.
[Times photos: Cherie Diez]
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Kendra, left, Cameron and Clint Daynard work on a papier-mache butterfly as part of their study of metamorphosis.

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Clint, left, Cameron and Kendra Daynard, who are 8, 6 and 4, respectively, take a break from school in their "classroom," an extra room in their condo. Dad (and teacher) John Daynard watches as Cameron pulls his costumed sister's monkey tail.

ST. PETERSBURG -- Clint is perplexed. The 8-year-old easily deduced that a ruler measures length, but he cannot decide on the right tool to measure a liquid.

His teacher closes the book, leaves the room and brings back two glasses of water and a glass measuring cup.

Clint pours the water from one of the glasses into the cup, squinting at the lines on the side. "It's two-thirds of a cup," he says.

Cameron, 6, is counting change by 10s at the other end of the table but stops to watch the demonstration. Kendra, 4, offers the nonsequitur, "Sometimes I don't listen to what Clint and Cameron say."

The children's teacher, wearing cowboy boots and a skull ring, is familiar, yet serious. He pushes Cameron to focus on the counting. "Can I have a hot dog?" Kendra asks.

The teacher is working to keep them all on track academically while permitting sidetracks. His name is John Daynard. They call him dad.

Bullies and sheep

For three months, Daynard has been homeschooling his children. He left his job as a Pinellas County teacher and pulled his sons out of public school because he found the environment chaotic, even threatening, he says.

More families are making the choice Daynard and his wife did. About 52,600 students were registered in home education programs in Florida last school year, a 15 percent increase in five years.

Daynard taught art at Shore Acres and Woodlawn elementary schools in St. Petersburg for about five months. He complained about unruly kids and passive administrators.

"I complained a lot. I didn't have art supplies. I was so stressed out I wasn't even a good teacher anymore." He and administrators agreed it would be best for him to go.

Clint and Cameron enrolled at Sanderlin Elementary in 2005. Last year wasn't bad, they said. But this year, Clint and Cameron said students were threatening and aggressive.

John, 39, his wife, Allyson, 44, and their three children moved to Florida from rural upstate New York. For more than a decade, they lived on a 28-acre farm near Little Falls. They raised sheep and angora goats.

"I learned how to shear," Daynard says. They had laying hens, three horses, a cat "and like 20 dogs," says Cameron.

The couple wanted to live close to the land. Allyson could take wool from their sheep and produce a sweater. For Daynard, learning to be a sheep farmer came after a job at a lumber mill and another harvesting vegetables. He once worked with the developmentally disabled, even taking the clients home on weekends before collapsing under the responsibility.

He lived for a while in a neighborhood of American Indians and went to powwows in full regalia, he says. Each day he puts on a necklace of bear claw-style beads. Like their father, Clint and Cameron have ponytails and ear piercings.

The Daynards moved here because they were weary of long, frigid winters and high taxes. "We're having a much better time in Florida," Allyson says.

Only the school system let them down.

"I didn't feel my kids were learning," she says.

Metamorphosis

A room in their rented Tierra Verde condo has been turned into a classroom. Sunlight and artwork dapple the walls. School begins at 9 a.m. Give or take.

Recently they all went to the beach for an archaeological dig. They mapped what they found buried in the sand. They identified birds and measured shells and drew diagrams and wrote reports.

Now they are studying metamorphosis. Clint and Cameron are watching a video showing a larva changing into a pupa on the computer in the corner.

"Everything you do should feed that main thrust. For example," says Daynard, "Clint gets his reading in, but instead of reading about cars he's reading about moths."

Many of the lessons involve art because it is Daynard's passion. His oil paintings of landscapes and portraits from New York are dreary compared with the bright blues and yellows of ocean and sky in the abstracts he now puts on canvas and wood panels.

Allyson works as an intensive care nurse at Edward White Hospital. When John quit teaching, she switched to the overnight shift for the pay differential.

"I have to work overtime to make up for what he's not making as a teacher. I feel lucky I can do this" for the family, she says.

Cameron is a first-grader and a struggling reader. He was failing the subject in school. "At this point, I'm trying to protect his ego or his id. He was frustrated," Daynard says. Clint, a third-grader, often tutors his siblings. Kendra, a preschooler, works on some lessons but is allowed to wander.

When he began researching homeschooling, Daynard says, he found many resources about "God's way." He says he is not religious.

"I'm spiritual," he says. "I'm not a prude. I hang out with bikers."

Kendra is practicing her sounds. She is looking at a drawing of a dog. "Duh, duh, duh. A d!

"Fish. Fuh. Fuh. Fuh." She is puzzled.

"I know which one it is," boasts Cameron.

"Tell me," says dad.

"An F."

In his short stint as a Pinellas County elementary teacher, Daynard says he saw a student take off her clothes and streak, another slam a student against a wall. If he intervened, he was chastised for not following policy, he says. But he also failed to follow the credo of teachers everywhere: Don't whine. Deal.

In his art classes, "the good kids would just sit there and fade to the background. I'd apologize at the end of class for not spending more time with them."

Free spirits

Kendra, who has been asked to wait for a hot dog, lies on the floor and pushes the open door with her bare foot. When the three children are later seated at the kitchen table with hot dogs and ketchup, she wants to watch Tom and Jerry on television. Told no, she unleashes a fake cry.

"Say you're sorry for crying," her dad says.

"Sorry," she says petulantly.

"Daddy, now can I put my baby soup on?" She wants to wear her bathing suit. She changes clothes every 20 minutes, "because I'm a girl."

It's time for the boys to go back to class.

"They don't feel stressed and pressured like they did," Daynard says. "I taught three years in New York, and then I came here and it took me a month not to want to teach anymore.

"I'm just starting to feel like I'm a teacher again."

"He's giving up his career," says Allyson. "I can't picture him doing this forever. But for now it's what we have to do."

Clint says he likes homeschooling because he can concentrate.

He says he went to the beach and caught a fish and he was surprised when his dad told him they were going to cook it. His dad made the fish's mouth move: "Why did you catch me, Clint?" the fish asked.

Clint smiles at the thought of the day outdoors and a talking fish.

At school when it was time for recess, he says, his face falling, the teachers would say, "It's too hot to go outside."

Susan Aschoff can be reached at (727) 892-2293 or aschoff@sptimes.com

 
Homeschooling in Florida

  • The number of homeschooled students in kindergarten through 12th grade in Florida has increased 15 percent in the past five years.
  • In 2005-06, 52,613 students registered with the state as homeschoolers.
  • There were 2,504 homeschoolers in Pinellas County in 2005-06, down slightly from the previous school year. Hillsborough County reported a 2.8 percent increase in homeschoolers during the same period, Pasco County, 2 percent; Hernando, 7 percent; and Citrus, 15 percent.
  • Florida requires parents intending to homeschool to notify their local school district.
  • There are no state requirements for curricula for homeschooling, but if requested by the school district, a portfolio of a student's work must be available for review.
  •  An annual evaluation must be submitted for each homeschooled student. Many parents opt to either have their child take a standardized test or to have the child's portfolio evaluated by a certified teacher.
  •  Homeschoolers are not required to take the FCAT.

Source: Florida Department of Education

[Last modified November 30, 2006, 17:41:07]


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Comments on this article
by John Daynard 01/16/08 09:07 AM
Thanks for all of the kind and thoughtful responses. This year I tried the public school system again and a couple weeks ago a 4th grader brought a fully loaded semi-automatic 45 cal. hand gun to school... Thanks again,..John
by Kate 02/07/07 04:22 PM
My public hs math students didn't know how to use a ruler, didn't have the reading comprehension to answer word probs even if they did understand the math, many couldn't multiply. The few kids that were really at hs level were getting SO ripped off.
by Kate 02/07/07 04:16 PM
I quit teaching in the public schools after 6 weeks. I was told I needed to give kids points on a math quiz for copying down the formula that was written on the board, even though they didn't attempt the problem! And I was asked to lie about grades.
by Mike 01/24/07 02:28 PM
This is a heart warming story. We homeschooled our children after discovering that our public school was an incubator for dysfunction. Today we refer to our kids as recovering ps children.
by AJ 01/23/07 03:22 PM
For those worried about "socialization" and "what are they being taught?" The Public schools still rely on parents to "homeschool" children in the art of shoe tying, using a toilet, etc. prior to Kindergarten. Lincoln, Edison, etc.- homeschooled.
by Duncan Rize 01/23/07 01:27 PM
We thought that this article was so important that we placed a link to it in our monthly learningByGrace.org newsletter to our parents and students. Would like more articles like this!
by Kathy 12/15/06 11:27 AM
Lisa is absolutely right. There's a difference between going to school and getting educated. In the older homeschooling system, students could usually count on being educated and schooling was private.
by Lisa 12/12/06 02:55 PM
There is a fallacy in believing that PS is the proven standard system. PS is not an old system. Historically all educ was HS. Our country was founded and established by HSers. HSing is the older system, with a longer, far more successful record.
by Lisa 12/12/06 02:45 PM
I went to PS and did great. When it came time to send our kids, my husband wanted them HS'ed. At the time I did not. However, after much research, I chose to HS. My reason-the Bible says "YOU raise up your child", not "make sure they are raised up."
by Kathy 12/11/06 11:26 AM
Yes, I have read more and more articles about teachers homeschooling. There are children of at least one teacher at my son's charter school here in Colorado. Now, that takes a lot of courage!
by Cecilia 12/10/06 01:05 AM
If you think that a child can only get socialization in a public school setting you and your children need to get out more. It is not the teachers job to teach social skills parents should do that as the child is growing. sharing,respect,polite,etc..
by Cecilia 12/10/06 12:45 AM
My husbands dyslexic little brother and my friends autistic son went undiagnosed with for years while in public shcool until my friend dediced to pull out her son and homeschool him and paid to have him evaluated. little brother got help at40 finally
by John 12/08/06 02:46 PM
Regarding Phillip's comment on FCAT. Why is it that every other aspect of life is tested: Doctors, Nurses, CPA's, "Tire Technicians," Police, etc. etc. etc., but it is not OK to test our schools and the poor job the teachers are doing?
by Miller 12/07/06 03:22 PM
Way to go Dad! My hats off to you and your wife!
by Melinda 12/07/06 07:30 AM
More and more public school teachers choose each year to homeschool or send their own children to private school. That speaks volumes about the state of public schools today.
by Kurt 12/06/06 10:23 PM
Mmmm,it seems to me that the non-traditional home educators are growing in number. Welcome to the ranks! We have home educated our children for ten years. We will do it for ten more.
by Samm 12/06/06 09:12 AM
I have raised my children to respect themselves and to defend each other from outside influences. This father believes that he is doing the same, and I commend him for his efforts for the sake of his children.
by Tracey 12/06/06 08:24 AM
What a great story. I'm thankful that we still have the freedom in this country to make choices for our precious children.
by maggie 12/05/06 11:45 PM
I would just like to put in a good word for public schools. Seriously people. Public schools have their problems but I got a good education, am at an excellant college, have a strong family, am a polite person and was not home schooled.
by Cori 12/05/06 09:48 PM
My kids were in a Pinellas County school until my then 4th grader had a 6" blade pulled on him before school. The police were involved and the school covered it up. The only punishment this child received was placement in another school.
by Chris 12/05/06 09:00 PM
As a former teacher in Pa I have had many of the same public school experiences. Homeschooling my own children has given them the chance to learn in a secure, creative and relaxed environment. Parents do know what is best for their chidren.
by Cecilia 12/05/06 12:35 AM
My husband and I had been homeschooling our 5 children for 10 yrs when he died, 2yrs ago. Immediately our public Ed friends & family assumed a single mom incapable of homeschooling. So much for Politcaly correct taught in public school. Doing Great
by Kimberly 12/04/06 02:25 PM
It is truely inspiring to see a father willing to do what is best for his children.
by Kathy 12/04/06 11:52 AM
Colorado is also behind other states, especially in special ed. My son has Tourette's. He was made fun of by school staff and students. We homeschooled him last year and he has returned to a charter school this year and made the highest honor roll.
by Bobby 12/04/06 10:49 AM
Great choice in deciding to homeschool. You will not regret it. Your children will learn to be independent learners and desire knowledge. Also, your kids will grow together and make your family stronger.
by HmScl Mom 12/04/06 08:49 AM
I too removed my daughter from public and then private school due to bullies -she's no wimp herself, catcher for travel SB, but the schools refused to acknowledge the problems and fix them. Our son loves being homeschooled(4yrs)and he plays sports.
by Stephanie 12/03/06 07:56 PM
As a teacher, I have had some homeschooled students come back into my school and have problems. I've seen teen students with undiagnosed dyslexia and autism. I've also watched homeschoolers struggle to understand the social cues of their peers.
by Carol 12/03/06 07:41 AM
I am a teacher and can wholeheartedly understand what this man is saying. It's true and it's scary. I have been teaching for 20 years, and would have leftthis year if I hadn't transferred to a fundamental school.
by Barbara 12/02/06 02:57 PM
My boy had no problem with academics, but public school environment took it's toll. Homeschooling provides a safe atmosphere for academics plus time to pursue another subject which will probably be his career. He does not lack a social life either.
by Jane 12/01/06 10:39 PM
When you have several kids, it is often cheaper to homeschool than to send them to private school, even if you consider the teaching parent's lost salary. 3 kids x $20k = $60K. A parent would have to make about $100K before taxes to afford that.
by phillip 12/01/06 10:22 PM
Pinellas County School system teaches the FCAT. The students are drilled facts hour after hour. Grammar, spelling, science,and social studies are out. There is only time for drilling reading in the morning and the drilling math in the afternoon.
by Angela 12/01/06 08:18 PM
I pulled my son out of public school 2 months ago. He is doing much better without being harrassed by other students in school. His father and I both teach, we just do it on modified schedules and yes we both work full time jobs but we've made it
by Candi 12/01/06 08:13 PM
very much behind in there teaching compared to alot of State's. I can say one thing for Michigan they have excelent teachers and teaching here way ahead of the Florida Schools. Sorry but the truth!
by Candi 12/01/06 08:08 PM
it here 2 year's earlier than florida algbrea 2 they were in Michigan for her grade when we came back thank god she had a cousin that was 3 years older than her and helped her to learn that, she did well after that but the Florida school system's are
by Candi 12/01/06 08:03 PM
My daughter was raised in flroida from 1986 till 1991 when we moved back to Michigan she was a good grade behind from the florida schools and she got all A's in florida they didn't even have algbrea in florida and they were in the second term of
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