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Thief takes son's ashes

The parents say the urn is the only stolen property they want to recover.

By THOMAS LAKE
Published January 10, 2007


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Steven Greene and his wife Eve, background, want back the urn and the ashes of their late son, Zachary, which were stolen Monday.

NEW PORT RICHEY - The first thief was cancer and it took Zachary at age 4. He lost his white-blond curls, shrank to skin and bones. He wished for one last train ride but never got to go.

His parents put his ashes on the mantel next to a tiny firetruck he'd built with Play-Doh. Eve and Steven Greene lost their only child in 2005, and on Monday they were plundered again.

Eve came home around 5:30 p.m. to find chaos. Jewelry and guitars missing, mud all over the place, footprints on an armchair. The scene was disconcerting enough at first glance. Then she looked at the mantle, and her heart sank.

A blue velvet box containing a brass urn, perhaps 4 inches tall, was gone. It had some of Zachary's ashes.

The police reconstructed the crime. It appeared someone had crawled in the kitchen window, snacked on some Cheerios, turned Zachary's old pillowcases into loot bags, filled them with about $10,000 worth of goods and then scrambled out the back door when Eve began coming in the front.

Eve sells real estate, and Steven owns a painting company. They couldn't figure out why a burglar would take an urn worth almost nothing but sentiment.

"I would really hate for it to be tossed in the garbage somewhere," Eve said. "I'm sure they didn't know what they were taking."

Her sister formed a search party that night. Pam Silvis, who also was Zachary's godmother, led a group of about six friends through the neighborhood just southeast of downtown, knocking on doors and shining flashlights in Dumpsters. Nothing.

The police had made no arrest by Tuesday, and the goods had not been recovered. Eve and Steven said they didn't care about the valuables. They only hoped the thief could muster enough decency to return the urn that holds their dead son's ashes.

"Just drop it off somewhere with a note on it," Steven said. "And that'll be that."

Thomas Lake can be reached at tlake@sptimes.com or 1-800-333-7505, ext. 6245.

 

[Last modified January 10, 2007, 00:43:02]


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by Penney, Rob & Chris 01/10/07 07:13 PM
"That'll be that" is as far as grieving parents are concerned. Maybe in the future the right thing will be done in the first place instead of half the right thing after the fact. Even a thief can have a conscience regardless of processing evidence.
by Penney, Rob & Chris 01/10/07 04:14 PM
Thank yous to St. Pete's Times for printing the article and to God-mamma, Tom, and friends for pounding the pavement. I know the ashes have now been returned anonymously, but I'm sure it wouldn't have happened without all the help! God bless you all!
by Queen 01/10/07 03:30 PM
I pray you get the ashes back safe. What a shame people need to get jobs and STOP breaking into houses!
by Jeremy 01/10/07 02:21 PM
Upon hearing that the urn containing Zachary's ashes were returned you can only be happy, but if the police process the urn as evidence after "that'll be that", you can forget about anyone ever doing half the right thing again.
by tom 01/10/07 01:18 PM
i understand the urn has been returned and the police are processing it as evidence. didn't the article say, "just drop it off and that'll be that?" Now they are processing it for evidence?
by Cathy 01/10/07 12:50 PM
I too lost my son and would just be beside myself if someone stole his urn. Shame on them, but thank God it was returned. Im so sorry for your loss.
by Belinda 01/10/07 12:05 PM
I will pray you get the urn back. This is heart breaking.
by George 01/10/07 10:53 AM
What a devestating ordeal for these two people. I can only hope that the coward who broke into their home will be man enough to return the urn. What an awful shame. I'm so sorry for them.
by Connie 01/10/07 09:30 AM
As the mother of a child who has died, I have tons of sympathy for this family. I'm so sorry for your loss! I just hope and pray you get him back. My prayers will be with you!
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