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A tragic tale is not what it seems

By THOMAS LAKE
Published February 1, 2007


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HUDSON - Beneath a stained-glass mural of the resurrection, the choir of St. Michael the Archangel Catholic Church gathered Friday to mourn a young member's death.

The people had braced for Alison Matera's passing since they learned of her cancer. They sat in wooden pews before a pedestal of polished white stone. Among them was a stranger who looked strangely familiar.

She said she was Matera's sister. But she looked and sounded exactly like Matera.

And the people wondered.

Was it all a trick?

According to an incident report from the Pasco County Sheriff's Office, this is what happened:

Matera told them about the cancer last February, after two years in the choir. They were some of her closest friends, and she gave them frequent updates on her treatment.

Near the end of last year, at the age of 27, she said she was giving up and entering hospice care. Choir members started getting calls from a hospice nurse with updates on Matera's condition. Several of them noticed the same thing: The nurse's voice sounded just like Matera's.

Jan. 18, the same nurse called choir director Timothy Paquin and told him Matera had died at 7:04 p.m. He spread the news and planned the memorial.

Soon after, Paquin got a call from a woman saying she was Matera's sister. She said Matera's body would be shipped north to her family. She, too, sounded just like Matera.

Paquin called the hospice. He called local funeral homes. No one had record of Alison Matera. But the wheels were in motion, and the memorial went on.

Then the so-called sister appeared, and the suspicion grew, and by the end of the service the people were convinced it had been a charade.

It's unclear whether anyone confronted her, because no one from the choir agreed to be interviewed for this story. Matera also declined comment, as did the stepsister she might have impersonated.

After the service, a choir member called the Sheriff's Office and asked for help.

A deputy visited Matera's apartment in New Port Richey that night. She was there. According to the report, she confessed to faking her sickness and death.

Matera was not arrested. According to sheriff's spokesman Doug Tobin, she did not commit a crime.

So why did she do it?

She told the deputy she has attachment problems rooted in childhood trauma. Any time someone gets close, she feels the need to separate.

After she gained several close friends in the choir, she said she had cancer to drive them away.

But it brought them closer.

She said the fake death - the heartbreaking conclusion of an 11-month lie - was her best attempt at sparing everyone's feelings.

Thomas Lake can be reached at tlake@sptimes.com or 1-800-333-7505, ext. 6245.

[Last modified February 1, 2007, 00:34:23]


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by no name 02/04/07 05:43 PM
Elizabeth~ I hope no one close to you ever lies to you~ or banks on your trust and deceives you. Your comment only adds insult to injury~ these people aren't ignorant. They were around this woman for years,they didn't question her when she became ill
by no name 02/04/07 05:34 PM
I pray that those affected will find peace and be proud that they had such generous hearts and kind souls to love someone in need~ especially when even in their hurt they still cared enough to seek help for her~
by no name 02/04/07 05:31 PM
animals were surrendered in awful condition due to her "illness"~ Children were told to say goodbye to her and pray for her soul due to her "illness" others with the same illness were made to feel weak because of her stamina~ elderly question trust
by Earl 02/03/07 08:33 AM
It is obvious that most who commented know nothing about mental illness. Those who are so afflicted are incapable of rational thinking or of seeking help. The illness takes many forms and causes strange behaviors not understood by the average person.
by k 02/02/07 02:31 PM
My mom works at the church and felt so bad for Alison that she had her phone me because I am terminaly ill with cancer. My mom thought we could console each other for support. She was so believeable. No one wants to believe someone could be so cruel.
by g 02/01/07 09:40 PM
mental and emotional illnesses are as real as physical illness the young lady is ill. Perhaps a little of "there but for the grace of God go I. condolences to all who have lost a loved one
by Marissa 02/01/07 09:30 PM
Wasn't this a Seinfeld episode???
by Elizabeth 02/01/07 08:27 PM
Nurses never call you; it's a breach of a very strict confidentiality law. How people could believe this silly play for attention is beyond me. I'm very glad it's a slow enough news day for this story to be published.
by vdk 02/01/07 04:08 PM
What a psycho! Hence she doesn't have a boyfriend or anyone close.
by angela 02/01/07 04:00 PM
I just buried my father on mon & reading this story just makes me ill. She needs some mandatory counseling.
by Cleo 02/01/07 03:49 PM
How close could the choir friends have been? No one visited her at Hospice? How did she fake looking sick? for the past year? Sounds like the Hudson folk aren't too smart!
by Bob 02/01/07 01:48 PM
This story needs to be submitted to "News of the Weird"
by Beth 02/01/07 01:45 PM
Sounds to me like she will be bringing bad Karma to herself, she better do some serious praying that she don't get that deadly disease. And that was a terrible terrible thing to do.
by Holmes 02/01/07 01:42 PM
Is she hot? 'cause bat s crazy girls are always good in the sack.
by Bruce 02/01/07 01:22 PM
If she was trying to separate from those people, why did she show up at the funeral?
by Lane 02/01/07 12:03 PM
Ok, she was not honest. She is clearly a nutjob. She's probably pulled stunts like this her whole life all for attention. Give me a break...
by Ashley 02/01/07 12:00 PM
Pat-love the comment. Only an idiot would dream up something so cruel. This undermines people who really have cancer. She should be sent to a loony bin for sure.
by Beth 02/01/07 11:41 AM
Clearly this woman is ill, and needs love and compassion, and a really good therapist. Very sad that a young woman would go to such great lengths to lie to people that truly cared about her.
by Christine 02/01/07 11:32 AM
This is a tragic story but the woman is being honest. Google Attachment disorder and learn about a growing epidemic in our society. When people with attachment disorder allow themselves to get close to and trust others they feel like they will die.
by Rick 02/01/07 11:10 AM
Matt, Please accept my sympathy for the loss of your father. This lady is ill and hurting and you are hurting right now, too. Try to remember the good things your father shared with you. Those memories will carry you when you need it most.
by Linda 02/01/07 10:55 AM
Sounds like she has the skills to be a soap star.
by Landerick 02/01/07 10:33 AM
That is terrible and funny at the same time...I can't stop LAUGHING...HAHAHAHAH
by pat 02/01/07 10:33 AM
the woman wasnt totally dishonest. as a medical technician,i can verify that she,s definitely brain dead!
by Paul 02/01/07 10:05 AM
This is news worthy? Hey, I'm attached to gardening, called my family and told them I can't stop picking weeds. Can you send a reporter over to write me up? Send a photographer too because my garden is really nice.
by Sonny 02/01/07 10:00 AM
Only in Hudson and "New York Richey"!
by Irene 02/01/07 09:07 AM
This is a sad, sounds like she was using the sympathy of others to make yourself feel loved. She seems to be crying for help. Hope she gets it soon.
by MATT 02/01/07 08:54 AM
My father just died of cancer less than two weeks ago. I am only 27-years old. This is not funny by any means and this lady needs to jump off a bridge!!!
by Gary 02/01/07 07:17 AM
This woman truly is ill and needs help, she should get into therapy somewhere before she does something really stupid. What she has done will affect all the people that worried abiut her in the future, make it hard to trust anything anyone tells them
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