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Suspicion moves in next door

By Andrew Meacham
Published March 9, 2007


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Keith Fox looked more like an aerobics instructor than an engineer. He wore gray sweat pants and exhorted 20 neighbors packed into his living room.

Everyone had come to hear about the mysterious house next door.

"This is directly from the zoning department," his wife told the group Saturday. "And when you guys read this, which is what happened to us, we were shocked."

"Stunned," Keith Fox added.

Diana Fox ticked off the kinds of homes that zoning allows in their Brandon neighborhood: mobile homes, bed-and-breakfasts, fraternities and farm worker housing.

Questions hung in the air. What's going on next door? Is it legal? Who lives there?

The Foxes and their neighbors on Debra Lynne Drive wanted answers. They've made their lives in Westwood, a leafy neighborhood east of Kings Avenue near W Lumsden Road. Most have lived there a decade or more.

Now they're worried. There's a new neighbor: the Bee Home assisted living facility. A man bought the four-bedroom house in June for $239,000. His niece, Marlyn Vistro, and her husband have run the home since January.

The Foxes, who have lived next door for 15 years, don't want them there.

Their worries center not so much on what they know, but what they don't know about the home and its patients. Their reasons go beyond the Bee Home to the meaning of a neighborhood itself - a place where people put down roots, raise families and move in predictable patterns.

"This has been kind of shoved down our throats," Diana Fox said. "Are we dealing with someone who is mentally disturbed and we have to be more vigilant with our children on the street? I mean, where do we sit here?"

'Just too weird'

On the other side of the Bee Home, Wally and Ginny Seward have owned their home for 33 years.

Ginny Seward met Vistro after the house changed hands.

They chatted about families. Vistro didn't mention anything about an assisted living home.

Why, Ginny Seward thought then, would they buy in June but not move in until January?

"It was just too weird," she said.

To neighbors, her tale reinforced a common impression: The house had changed hands under false pretenses.

When the Foxes found out the home was an assisted living facility, they confronted Vistro and her husband.

Complaints abound

Fox says Vistro told him the home didn't need residents' permission to operate.

"I said, 'Fine. Then we'll do what we have to do.' "

That night at 8:30, Diana Fox heard her dog barking and looked outside. There was a man in dark clothing in the new neighbors' yard. He was pacing. She called the Sheriff's Office.

Deputies came and found nothing amiss. But the Foxes were unhappy. They wanted to know who it was.

They called a code inspector and the Agency for Health Care Administration and found that the home was licensed for four patients.

They complained to a county consumer assistance unit and called County Commissioner Al Higgenbotham so often that his staff spent 20 hours on their complaints.

They pored over state law and learned that nursing homes with six or fewer patients are considered houses.

There was nothing they could do.

"The state statute allows it. The land development code allows it," said John Walker, a senior county planner. "What do they want us to do?"

Who are they?

In the Foxes' living room, a neighbor read the group a petition to have the Bee Home's license revoked.

Keith Fox urged everyone to protest the home at a County Commission meeting this week. He warned his neighbors about the possible dangers.

"I'm not waiting for my daughter to trip on a needle or some little kid to pop a pill and die right in front of me," he said.

At the Bee Home, Vistro answered the door. A practical nurse, she offered to show a reporter the home's licenses. She said she stays there 24 hours a day. And she has watched neighbors through the window passing out fliers and pointing at the house.

"I know that their concern is why we didn't ask their permission," Vistro said. "We don't have to according to the law. The zoning is clear."

Nearby, a gaunt man played a computer game. Chad Ouimette, 28, has muscular dystrophy. He likes video games, badminton and going to movies. He's one of two patients.

David Snider repaired cranes and remodeled houses before his multiple sclerosis accelerated. The 41-year-old doesn't understand the controversy.

"It's a shame these people are so unhappy with their lives that they are trying to make everyone else unhappy, too," he said.

Snider offered to talk to any neighbors who have questions about his care.

Fox said he isn't interested.

"We want to give the feeling," he said, "that they are not wanted."

Andrew Meacham can be reached at 661-2431 or ameacham@sptimes.com.

[Last modified March 8, 2007, 07:51:18]


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Comments on this article
by Paul 03/19/07 10:46 AM
Vistro stated to neighbors that her family was moving in, she bought home w/uncle, a merchant marine. Her name does not appear on home! Mr. Eastman is private investigator. Is this true?How many lies has this family told? Why lie to neighbors?
by Jim 03/19/07 10:40 AM
Shane, THey are not neighbors, they do not own this home, they do not live 24 hrs in this home. Their home is in Gibsonton thats their neighbors. Home is owned by Mr. Ducay(public records)Why hasn't Mr. Ducay presented himself?
by Heather 03/18/07 11:02 AM
I understand there was a blog sent in about how much profit these businesses make. But this blog never appeared. I wonder why?
by BONNIE 03/18/07 11:01 AM
Cera, Vistro never stated to show the license to the neighbors. We knew that, Mr. Eastman had the license which AHCA told the neighbors that they had given. We have nothing against the patients it is against Mr. Eastman. As before why did they lie?
by Mark 03/17/07 01:38 PM
Shane,Get over it? Like Mr. Eastman who lives in a deed restricted community.Remember, this neighborhood was here first. He put his business in our area.State and county will see if its going anywhere.If they dont like it move the business.
by Diane 03/17/07 01:33 PM
TO SHANE, I own several guard dogs that were trained to protect my family and property. I would expect my dog to bark at strangers. Neighbors are the same people that own and live in their homes, not different people coming and going.
by DOG OWNER 03/17/07 01:28 PM
Shane, your are right to be embarassed if your dog barks at neighbors. Does your dog bark at strangers? People coming and going into this business are strangers. When strangers come to your door does the dog bark? Why?
by Shane 03/15/07 10:46 PM
I'm a dog owner. I would be embarassed and sorry if my dog barked at my neighbors. WHICH IS WHAT THEY ARE...YOUR NEIGHBORS. Get over it. If you don't like it maybe you should move to a deed restricted area. It sounds like the ALF isn't going anywhere
by Cera 03/15/07 10:41 PM
The article states that Vistro offered the Fox's to see the licence. They must have been too embarrased to accept truth. You think that the RESIDENCE of this home are left alone? Why not knock on the door and ask? They would tell you it's not true.
by appraiser 03/15/07 08:03 PM
Most Alf's appraised has more amenities and upgrades to offer than their neighbors. They have the monetary means to upgrade unlike the regular Joneses.
by your nice neighbor 03/15/07 08:00 PM
Thanks city of Brandon for allowing this ALF in a nice neighborhood. The city/state knows a good community mix. Alfs are blessings and and this is a baby one. Love/welcome neighbor. You have the right to your privacy not harrassment.
by John 03/15/07 03:26 PM
In the article Vistro offers the reporter to show her license. License for what? A business? She says that she is there 24 hrs a day. Neighbors see her leave and arrive at different times of the day.So how can she be there 24 hrs? another lie??
by Sandra 03/15/07 02:20 PM
You call yourselves neighbors. It seems that you are all pretty intent on not being very neighborly to people trying to help others. Shame on all of you. What goes around comes around...Life is too short for such pettiness. Get a life, ALL of you.
by Sally 03/15/07 02:15 PM
We have lived in this street for 25 yrs.Never had a business on this street till now. We want families not revolving door of patients. Why are the families sending their loved ones to this facility? Why not take care of them in their homes? no time?
by Real Estate Agent 03/15/07 02:06 PM
Mr. Appraiser: What is the purpose of deed restrictions?To keep Alfs,nursing homes, etc, out just like where Mr. Eastman lives. He lives in deed restrictions. Why does he live there? Why not move into this home he is the provider? Ask him why?
by Richard 03/15/07 02:00 PM
Cera: Decent people as you descibed don't lie to neighbors. What did they have to hide? Why not tell them what they were going to do. Afraid of the backlash? Applied for license in May for business but told neighbors they were moving in. Another lie!
by Bryce 03/15/07 01:53 PM
Melqui: Your facts are wrong about a business with <6 patients.They still needed a license to operate this business. Remember they are not doing it for free. Important fact for you if you dont know, is that they do not own this house!!!!!!!!!
by dog handler 03/15/07 01:48 PM
The Fox dog barks at strangers not neighbors. It is doing what a dog naturally does, protect & guard their family from unknown people. Dog owners would know this. I think the neighborhood doesn't lack compassion but they were deceived & lied to.
by bob 03/15/07 01:38 PM
Families of the patients beware, I thought having my quadropalegic brother in a community home vs lg.facility was better. Results were meds disappearing,no A/C during the day(only when family members visited),sedated during the day(less of a problem)
by Deidrea 03/15/07 09:09 AM
I cannot believe the lack of compassion this neighborhood feels, not even bothering to trying to understand the situation. Does any of them have someone affected by MS or any elderly family? I could understand their reaction if it were a rehab home.
by Jeanne 03/15/07 07:09 AM
Roxanne: I have lived in my hood for 33 years and wouldn't mind a similar ALF. Maybe my 88 yr old mom or son w/ MS can live there one day. Should have checked the zoning BEFORE buying in that area. They can always move to a deed restricted community!
by kadie 03/14/07 07:38 PM
funny, I spoke to several realestate agents and they say it does bring property values down. Including the one that sold that alf house.
by Cera 03/14/07 07:09 PM
The Fox's and every person that agrees with them are ignorant and must have no time on their hands other to complain about wonderful decent people. Maybe the cops should be called on their daily routine of playing music so loud 2 blocks can hear it.
by Roxanne 03/14/07 05:35 PM
To all who defend this alf why don't you ask your neighbors if they would want it in your neighborhood. Why not ask Mr. Eastman to put one in your neighborhood. neighbors have lived here for 30 years.They know their neighbors and who lives where.
by Michelle 03/14/07 05:26 PM
As far as property values are concerned one of the homes in that neightborhood had a lease with option to buy the home. When the owner found out about the alf, guess what, he has decided not to buy the home!!!!!!!!!!
by your appraiser 03/14/07 04:19 PM
this community is not deed restricted, see public records. No, the property value will not go down, it is residential. The owners did not lie, how many of you really know your neighbors? Or pre-interview whether they quality to be your neighbor.
by Marvie 03/14/07 03:29 PM
A bunch of neighbors ignorant about ALF's. Why are there ALF's? These houses are options to your rich children to put their parents in a normal neighborhoods of people like the Vistros. Richer families chooses this care over convalescent homes.
by Michele 03/14/07 02:39 PM
I don't understand why the neighbors are so worried. I have an ALF in my neighborhood(it has been there for many years) there has never been a safety concern for the children and it has not affected the property values one bit. Live and let live!!
by ALEX 03/14/07 11:47 AM
THIS IS A BUSINESS THEY NEEDED A LICENSE!!!!!
by ALEX 03/14/07 11:45 AM
TO THE PEOPLE WHO ARE IN FAVOR OF THIS ALF, BUSINESS BECAUSE THEY HAVE A LICENSE AND CHARGE. THEY DO NOT OWN THIS HOME, THEY DO NOT LIVE THERE. IF IT IS DONE OUT OF THE GOODNESS OF THEIR HEART WHY DONT THEY STOP CHARGING THE FAMILIES OF THESE PATIENT
by Rhoda 03/14/07 10:10 AM
Article seemed designed to poke fun at the homeowners.A business is defined by someone getting paid for a job -- the "homeowner", the nurse, the doctor, etc. The quiet residential neighboorhood has to hear extra cars -- visitors, relatives,vendors.
by Richard 03/14/07 10:04 AM
What we are dealing with is a tyranny of the minority, the minority being a partnership of a sellor of a property and a creative real estate agent. The majority are those of us left behind with a lesser neighborhood and commercial creep.
by Melqui 03/14/07 09:51 AM
Does the Fox dog run and bark in its back yard? They say they are scared by a person walking in their own yard next door. They have right to walk in their back yard if they want to. Dogs should not have more rts than the disabled? and they dont bark
by Rocky 03/14/07 09:22 AM
We're not talking about sexual predators here. We're talking about people with disabilities, and/or the elderly. These neighbors' concerns are unfounded. Would they feel that way if it was their relative who was placed in a good, clean home?
by Melqui 03/14/07 03:21 AM
It is not considered a "business" until more than 6 residents live there,they have 2. These are wonderful, caring, compassionate folks at Bee Home and should be commended to give up so much of their personal lives to care for others. Hats off to you
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