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Opinion
Dukes' troubled path far too well traveled
By GARY SHELTON
Published May 23, 2007
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Elijah Dukes looks on from the Rays' dugout. He has a history of domestic disputes with his wife, a middle school teacher in Ruskin.
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[Times photo: Brian Cassella]
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When trouble comes along - and with Elijah Dukes, it usually does - there are only so many ways to deal with it.
You can give it time and hope the trouble goes away. You can give it help and hope the trouble gets better. You can handle it with care and hope the trouble does not blow up in your face.
Or, in the case of the Tampa Bay Devil Rays, who have tried all of this, you can finally come to an inevitable conclusion:
You can get as far away from the trouble as possible.
If the latest allegations against Dukes by his wife are substantiated, if he indeed threatened murder, if he transmitted the photo of a pistol to her cell phone to intimidate her, then the Rays have no choice but to wash their hands of him.
If the accusations are true, he should be through.
Simple as that.
There is a line between trouble and too much of it, and if NiShea Gilbert is telling the truth about Dukes' behavior, then it finally has been crossed. The Rays have a record of standing by Dukes in the face of problems - arrests and suspensions and injunctions, oh my - but a history of domestic violence, and threats of more, has to be too much for them to explain away.
Again, let's go slow here, because as disturbing as the threatening voice mail is, as frightening as the photo of the gun transmitted to Gilbert's phone may be, these remain allegations. The police have not filed charges.
Still, there is a history that should leave everyone concerned. Dukes has had problems with anger management throughout his career.
For the Rays, it is time to figure out the truth.
What does a uniform mean? Is it only about standings and statistics, about performance and potential? It shouldn't be. For decades, owners have tried to sell the image of a team as representative of something greater. It is supposed to have some sort of bond with its surrounding community. Every time the team releases information on a player's charitable donation, it is trading on goodwill. For the Rays, this is a test of that.
Think about this. For you to disbelieve Gilbert's charges, if you believe she is playing the media as leverage in her divorce (as Dukes' agent, Scott Pucino, suggests) you must believe the following: You have to believe she lied. You have to believe that she faked the photo. You have to believe she had someone imitate Dukes' voice on the phone.
Also, you have to believe that Dukes cares what you think.
Shortly before the Rays' game against Seattle on Tuesday night, Dukes stood in a hallway of Tropicana Field with three Times reporters. One after the other, the allegations were read to him. He was told one of the writers had a copy of the photo of the pistol he allegedly sent.
Dukes did not flinch. He did not blink. He did not ask to see the photo. He did not seem outraged or embarrassed or surprised. He did not explain or protest or apologize, any of the things you might expect from someone who had been falsely accused. He didn't help himself, and he didn't try.
"I have a video game to finish," he said. And he left. Shortly afterward, he led off the game with a triple.
Look, it's hard to blame the Rays for wanting to believe in Dukes. We all want to believe in Dukes, because we want to believe a man can overcome the disadvantages of his youth. The Halls of Fame are filled with players who managed. We want to believe in Dukes because he is talented. We want to believe in another chance, and another after that.
Sometimes, however, the price becomes too great. Sometimes, the risk becomes too large.
If Gilbert's accusations are true - and you cannot say that enough - it no longer matters how mesmerized the Rays are by his talent. They cannot hold onto him. Allegations such as these suggest this story will end tragically, and the Rays cannot afford to be a part of it.
Oh, half-measures are available. The Rays could try to suspend him (if the players' association doesn't get it overruled). They could demote him until the controversy ends. But if the franchise is ever going to suggest that there is a line that cannot be crossed, isn't this it?
If the Rays let go of Dukes, would he end up somewhere else? Probably. Would he succeed? Possibly. No one has ever denied his talent. For a team that has been knocked around lately for letting go of Josh Hamilton, that might be a concern.
It shouldn't be, but here's a promise. If Dukes made death threats, and if the Rays let go of Dukes because of it, they will never hear a word of disapproval here. Because it would be the right thing to do.
Yes, it might be sad if he goes.
On the other hand, it might be tragic if he stays.
Gary Shelton can be reached at (727) 893-8805.
[Last modified May 23, 2007, 03:03:17]
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by JD
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05/28/07 10:58 AM
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This is the most biased column I have ever read. If the Rays dump Dukes without due cause, I will dump the Rays and never attend another game. OTOH, if they do the right thing, they will have this fan for life.
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by Jim
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05/24/07 12:31 PM
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how many crimes can you commit. Dukes has to go
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by Jay
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05/24/07 02:58 AM
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Let's see...Elijah Dukes has fathered five children with four different women by the age of 22. Who was his childhood idol, Shawn Kemp???
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by BWK
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05/24/07 12:49 AM
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Time for the fans to strike!
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by Robb
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05/24/07 12:42 AM
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Well Gary Shelton pretty much says it all. Maybe the Rays should change their name, stadium, uniforms, and start over because as of now nothing in the organization seems to be going well.
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by BK
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05/24/07 12:32 AM
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If the accusations are true and the Rays take no real action it may be time for the fans to take action. How many more wins has Dukes brought to the team? He has brought plenty of shame to the city.
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by Jim
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05/23/07 11:21 PM
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There is a long history of men killing these women and then killing themselves.
You have to take this seriously In Seattle about 6 weeks ago a man walked onto the Univ.or Wash campus and killed a woman with a restraining order then himself.
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by W
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05/23/07 10:38 PM
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"LJ" and what the heck are you talking about. You don't know anything. You have an opinion. I don't know and neither do you!
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by John
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05/23/07 10:10 PM
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Gangsa Thug
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by NL
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05/23/07 09:39 PM
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The Rays cannot make the front page of the paper by losing everyday, so Elijah is trying something new. I heard this is only his first time in trouble with the law --- (pause...NOT)
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by Skip
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05/23/07 06:48 PM
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Very well stated, Gary. I wonder how organizations like the Yankees or the Dodgers would handle this on going situation. This is really a significant moment in this new management's short history. Do they continue to REWARD bad behavior?
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by dawg
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05/23/07 06:14 PM
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throw him in prison before he kills someone. i'm sick of ignorant professional athletes
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by taylor
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05/23/07 05:58 PM
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gary shelton must be bored. how premature is this column? and after years of ridiculously emotional supportive columns about hamilton, why is the SPT so quick to jump all over dukes?
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by john
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05/23/07 05:55 PM
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i'd bet most of the people here supported josh hamilton and julio lugo, yet are so quick to condemn elijah. troubling, but not all that surprising.
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by Amanda
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05/23/07 05:31 PM
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Gary Shelton is right. The Devil Rays need to cut Dukes loose... IF he is guilty! If he did this, he needs to get the boot. But people, we can't jump to conclusions. I thought people were still innocent until proven guilty? Let's see what happens.
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by NiShea's ex-friend
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05/23/07 05:15 PM
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Ask her why did he come to the school.. Oh, she didn't tell you why!! Well ask her to "show him the money" his money that is .. she took is money thousands. I am not saying what he did was right...but i understand. NiShea it will come out!
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by ken
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05/23/07 05:13 PM
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He's a waist of time. dump him and move on. the guy has no morals. 5 kids at age 22. that is proof positive that he has no accoutability and no consideration for others. he is a joke and not the type of person children should be around.
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by S
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05/23/07 04:50 PM
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SHE PROBABLY IS SAFER AS LONG AS HE IS
HAS HIS JOB WITH THE RAYS.
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by K
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05/23/07 04:44 PM
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everyone should know this is 1 side to the story and im sure its exaggerated. keep his personal life personal. do you get fired from your job if you screw up at home? i think this is punishment enough for him. its all over the news. time to move on.
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by Mika
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05/23/07 04:22 PM
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It's very easy to sit back and judge someone. But it's hard to hear when it's about you. So why must you all judge him.. Know the situation and know what your talking about first. This is a family affair. Let them handle their own.
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by David
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05/23/07 03:53 PM
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W, if we fail to shut up are you going to threaten us, maybe send us a picture of a gun? You seem to have some anger management issues of your own. Isn't this a forum where people can freely express their opinions? Dukes is bully and a punk!
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by scott
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05/23/07 03:51 PM
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Sure, when there's smoke there's fire. However, you people need to keep from getting emotional and let the team and authorities handle this with fact based information. Quit being righteous and wait for facts. Then, good for you if you were correct.
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by Dan
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05/23/07 03:30 PM
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Sorry folks! There's too much smoke here for there to be no fire. If this was the first or only allegation of poor/violent behavior I'd give him the benenfit of the doubt - but it isn't. It isn't even the second, or the third, or the fourth . . .
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by LJ
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05/23/07 03:16 PM
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hey 'W' I wasn't at the school either...nor was at Brett Myers house or OJ's or in McGwire's locker room but I still know they're guilty.
" In late April, Tampa Bay Devil Rays outfielder Elijah Dukes barged into his wife's middle school classroom"
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by zippy
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05/23/07 03:13 PM
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Mr. Dukes please take note a warning shot has been fired over your bow. Everything and anything you do is under a microscope and thrown out for public consumption. Walk softly with that big stick.
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by steve
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05/23/07 03:03 PM
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Apparently Mr Dukes is a potent hitter in a number of arenas. The number of children he has may only be eclipsed by his protection orders. Sadly, this baseball talent is a human and public relations disaster. MLB should act or the Rays should. Seeya!
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by Listen
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05/23/07 02:39 PM
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I am tired of you guys judging him.. Well truth is she stole $50,000 from him last year he got upset and left her alone now she can't take it. So, when the truth comes out she maybe the one behind bars.
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by Lynn
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05/23/07 02:00 PM
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The Devil Rays are Winners and will become the next AL East Champions..Nothing can stand in their way.
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by W
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05/23/07 12:54 PM
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You people acting like you all know the real story. Were any of you there? Did any of you see what happened? If you did, speak up! If not, shut up!!
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by Rod
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05/23/07 12:31 PM
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Rod he won't hurt her infact he has left her alone and she can't handle it. He has moved on. What she is saying is not a new story she needs attention but she didn't have to drag the other mothers and kids down with her. She is so sad.
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by Jack
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05/23/07 12:25 PM
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5 kids with 4 women at age 22. And still time to play video games. Nice life.
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by Mark
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05/23/07 12:11 PM
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The fact the Ray's are even waiting to cut him loose shows what a lack of class organization they are. There are photos and witnesses to the behavior. Do the Ray's need a coroner report as well before cutting him loose?
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by Rod
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05/23/07 12:07 PM
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You nailed it Gary. The excuses need to stop. He will hurt her.
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by L
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05/23/07 11:58 AM
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For everytime he has gotten in trouble I have spoken with him. I kept telling him he has to change. Violence is not the answer,if you want to make it the change has to come from the heart, pray.HE will kill himself or others if let go. It will be BAD
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by Bill
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05/23/07 11:55 AM
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You know when the truth comes out a lot of poeple are going to have apoligze to Mr. Dukes. This woman will go to any lengths to bring this young man down. So you people that are rushing to judement should just hold your horses.
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