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Dukes sounds off at critics
The outfielder lets loose on a radio call-in. The distraction irks Rays officials.
By MARC TOPKIN
Published June 20, 2007
PHOENIX - Elijah Dukes had apparently heard enough. So at 7 a.m., from 1,800 miles away, the troubled Devil Rays outfielder decided to speak up.
And frustrated team officials may be ready to say goodbye.
Speaking angrily and loudly, Dukes called Tampa radio station WDAE-AM 620 early Tuesday and spent 13 minutes addressing - for the first time - some of the allegations leveled against him recently.
Speaking to hosts Ian Beckles and Ron Diaz, Dukes blasted estranged wife NiShea Gilbert for "stealing" his money and said if he hadn't left her "he'd be in prison because she provoked me." Dukes, who is the father of at least five children by four women, acknowledged sexual relations with a then-17-year-old foster child but denied he is the father of her unborn child. He passionately defended his mother against claims of drug use.
And he defiantly said that no matter how many "hyenas" try, "Nobody's going to bring me down with all these accusations they're making about me."
Team officials were not pleased that Dukes created another distraction and seem poised to accelerate efforts to trade or release the 22-year-old rookie.
And the desire for Dukes to depart may be mutual. His mother said in a later radio interview Tuesday that "all he wants to do is move on."
Executive vice president Andrew Friedman said frustration over the situation extends to all levels of the organization, presumably including principal owner Stuart Sternberg. A number of players and coaches have made their feelings known in private conversations with management.
"There's disappointment and frustration," Friedman said. "I think it's been a difficult thing because it's shifted the focus. There's a lot of very positive things going on that are not getting their due notice because of this, so as a result of that I'm sure that a lot of people are very frustrated. And that extends all the way throughout the organization."
Friedman, who met privately with Dukes on Tuesday, said the Rays want to "minimize the distraction" and are "eager for the focus to shift back."
Dukes, who was playing cards in the clubhouse before Tuesday's game, declined to explain his reasons for going public when approached by a St. Petersburg Times reporter, saying: "F--- you, you know I'm not talking to you."
It was not clear exactly why Dukes called the radio station, especially at a time when most major-leaguers are about halfway through their sleep cycle after a night game. But he somehow became aware that an earlier caller said Dukes had told him during an anger management session that Dukes' mother had smoked crack cocaine. He may also have heard that the station said it wanted to hear from Dukes.
When Dukes first called, he was loud, angry and cursing. Justin Pawlowski, the show's executive producer, spent four minutes calming him down so they could put him on the air: "He was saying, 'You guys have got it all wrong. You don't know the whole story,'" Pawlowski said. "It took a while to calm him down."
Though Dukes made several points, he also raised more concern, and not just from Devil Rays officials.
"If he was trying to help his case, I don't think he did," said Diaz, one of the show's hosts. "I feel bad for him. He has to be under an immense amount of pressure right now, and I'm not talking about baseball."
Talk radio has been something of a Dukes family affair this week, with at least five relatives and associates airing their views. His mother, Phyllis, called the station after Dukes spoke, defending her son from accusations of fathering more children by pointing out: "I can say I'm pregnant from Carl Crawford, okay? And you know that's hearsay."
Among other things, Dukes said:
- He has "made strides" in controlling his anger problem, but admitted that if he hadn't left Gilbert it might have gotten the best of him. "I know if I stayed with her I'd physically be in prison because she provoked me by hitting me, " Dukes said. "She done hit me across the head with a picture frame and everything. I hate that because I told my kids I would never go back to jail for no domestic violence."
- He said he could use guidance and "somebody to talk to" but insisted he did not need professional help. "How many times have I ever shot someone?" Dukes said. "How many times have I ever stabbed someone? How many times have I gone to jail for brutally beating someone? Never. I went to jail for breaking a remote control (in a previous domestic case)."
- He "did something one time" with the then-17-year-old foster child in his step-grandmother's house but knew "for a fact" that, based on the timing, he was not the father.
- He did not address previous accusations of death threats against Gilbert and their two children because "I'm not one of those people who have to get even. Just like the Bible says, if you know it's not true, you don't have to say anything and I haven't been saying anything."
- He promised once his own father went to jail that he would be a good father and do everything he could for his own kids, and that he has.
Though Dukes blamed many of his domestic disputes on money, Gilbert, who filed for divorce last week after receiving a one-year restraining order against Dukes, said that was not the case. Gilbert, a teacher who said she has no summer income, said she had to file for public assistance, and has a hearing about temporary child support and alimony on July 13.
"If he's done so much for his kids, then why do I have to worry about where their next meal is coming from?" she said. "If he does so much for his kids, then why are some of the other mothers struggling too?"
As for Dukes' claim that Gilbert provoked him: "I guess everybody provokes him because a lot of people make him angry."
Times staff writers Eduardo A. Encina and Abbie VanSickle contributed to this report.
[Last modified June 20, 2007, 02:29:50]
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by Stephanie
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06/21/07 09:09 PM
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He is a "big headed" idiot who needs to be brought back down to his level! At 22 he is out of control, he is going to end up killing someone,GET RID OF THIS HOTHEAD.....
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by Edgar
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06/21/07 03:54 PM
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Sternberg and Friedman are two spinless weasels. That don't have the guts to get rid of this ***hole. He should be banned from MLB. Selig is gutless moron and Bud is not a commisioner he is a puppet. Him and Gary Bettman are the worst owners.
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by John
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06/21/07 03:47 PM
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It is the comments posted here (nearly all of them) that reflects embarrassment upon our country. Not Dukes, not MLB; its the hatred, anger and arrogance from the majority of these 'readers' who vent here - Shame, shame.
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by sean
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06/21/07 02:48 PM
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this "kid" doesn't want help! He wants to blame everyone for all his problems. Just like his parents. Mom dealt drugs, dad's in prison for murder, but its not their fault. Get over. You can't help someone who won't help themselves.
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by Fernando
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06/21/07 02:32 PM
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To all the "moms" of his kids....CLOSE your damn legs!
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by Rich
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06/21/07 11:38 AM
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It's so funny to hear all these PC jack*** losers on their high horses putting Elijah down for standing up for himself.
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by Bud
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06/21/07 07:27 AM
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Maybe the Bucs could use this bum. He is right up the Grudog's alley. They deserve each other.
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by Tony
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06/21/07 06:10 AM
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This seems to be common with todays athletes. All mouth and no class. This guy is a hood rat. How many excuses should we make for him. He is black and young, so what. Send him to Iraq since he has so much anger.Stop blaming society. He must go!!
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by Jason
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06/21/07 04:18 AM
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I hope they get rid of this guy.. This dude is the "Pac Man" Jones of baseball and needs to be gone from the game - and society.
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by Kay
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06/21/07 02:19 AM
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The Rays should trade him to Oakland. That might be the only place that he can heal in a nurturing environment and grow up a little.
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by goxx
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06/20/07 11:26 PM
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Since when does a teacher need public assistance in the summer? Most teachers aren't paid in the summer and they aren't married to a professional athlete.
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by Dennis
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06/20/07 11:25 PM
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I refused to attend any of the games vs the Devil Rays. I am not going to contribute $.10 to a team that has a player threatening kids lives on the phone. There is no place for this guy in baseball. Period!
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by INGY
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06/20/07 10:30 PM
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THAT STUPID NEGGER CAN GO TO HELLO. HE DOES NOT DESERVE TO PLAY THE GREAT GAME OF BASEBALL. SELIG NEEDS TO RELEASE HIM AND SUSPEND HIM NOW OR I'M NOT GOING TO ANOTHER GAME TO SEE THIS FECKIN THUG!
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by sean
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06/20/07 09:01 PM
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All that money, and not a ounce of brains, or respect for anyone but himself. What a piece of Major League S__t
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by MIchael
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06/20/07 07:51 PM
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Unfortunately this story will probably end in the murder of a school teacher. We'll find Dukes hiding in the trunk of a car somewhere in Georgia. There is no "Anger Management" program for someone like this. That was up to his momma years ago. WOW
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by Joe
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06/20/07 07:43 PM
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POOR GUY...OBVIOUSLY, HE IS A CRACK BABY. I REFUSE TO BELIEVE HE IS THIS STUPID NATURALLY, MORE THAN LIKELY, HE HAS A CHEMICAL IMBALANCE. I THINK I SAW SOMETHING LIKE THIS ON DAVE CHAPPELLE'S SHOW...AND IF DAVE IS TELLING THE TRUTH, THEN IT'S CRACK!!
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by Jim
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06/20/07 07:38 PM
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E needs some guidance, someone that can help and advise him. His youth and lack of guidance in his youth keeps him spinning. What little I know of him, I like, he is straight up, pleasant and respect to me. I wish there was a way to help him.
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by Dana
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06/20/07 06:00 PM
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His family and him mouthing off on the radio is just another nail in the coffin. If they'd just shut up and let the courts deal with the situation he might come through it alright, but things like this will bury him. And may have already.
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by Chuck
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06/20/07 05:24 PM
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Dukes needs a humbling experience to knock him off this pedestal that he thinks he's on because he's a professional athlete. Then maybe he can focus on his baseball skills and become the player everyone expects. His ego seems to be in the way
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by JSP
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06/20/07 04:42 PM
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It is a sad commentary when there are a bunch on here who want to just get rid of him. Have the guts to help people change and get through their problems, not just pass them on to others. I will be a Rays fan for life if they help this kid!
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by Mark
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06/20/07 04:31 PM
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I am sick of hearing about this non-story. The Times reporters are just angry at Dukes for dissing them and so are trashing him like reporters always do to players who won't talk to them. These reporters need to grow up!
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by benny
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06/20/07 04:14 PM
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He has to go, today!
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by Larry
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06/20/07 03:59 PM
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If any of the listeners have ever had a 22 year old in this day and age they would understand Dukes' problems. You have to remember he is 22, 4 years out of high school, no real role model in his life, and under extreme pressure.
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by JAE
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06/20/07 03:37 PM
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His radio rant reminded me of the Mike Tyson press conference of a few years ago. Can it be long before Dukes bites somebody's ear off?
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by jerry
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06/20/07 03:14 PM
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Dukes exemplifies todays celebrity athelete's like O.J., and Iron Mike. Keep em coming!
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by Eric
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06/20/07 03:06 PM
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Time to cut our losses, this situation is only going to get worse...no winner here.
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by Ed
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06/20/07 02:10 PM
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How many of you "super moral" people know Mr. Dukes, or Ms Gilbert, or any of the ones involed here? None - right? Yet you arrogantly profess to know all about it! Kevin - DRays don't need "fans" like you...shame on most, my apologies to the family
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by To John
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06/20/07 01:51 PM
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"Black athletic?" Ok, for one, when talking about a lack of education you might want to proofread. Two, what does race have to do with anything?
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by Time to go...
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06/20/07 01:28 PM
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Good bye, it was not nice knowing you. Hope you had a real good time, we certainly did not. We won't miss you, but will remember you. Good luck finding employment with your track record. The $350,000.00 you make is more than you will ever see in life
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by Dennis
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06/20/07 01:03 PM
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man...i feel bad 4 the rays after reading this! this guys is completely nuts and whats up with having your mom calling a radio station to defend you?? he's 22 not 15...hes really not doing good enough this year to warrant being on a team
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by Mark in TO
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06/20/07 01:02 PM
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"Another classic example of a black athletic with too much money and no education and a big mouth." John - What does his skin color have to do with anything? As for "no education".. "athletic"? Seems the (bigoted) "big mouth" is yours.
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by John
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06/20/07 01:02 PM
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Dukes is a public figure - if he doesn't like us commenting on his personal life he can quit baseball and get a real job. If he wanted privacy he'd stay off the radio. But he does neither - so game on!
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by Mark in TO
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06/20/07 01:01 PM
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Dukes is NO man. He is an immature kid with no sense of responsibility for his actions. That he's a wealthy pro ball player is meaningless. It's the love, guidance and responsibility he provides to his kids that's important and so far he has none.
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by Harold
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06/20/07 01:00 PM
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I do not know Elijah personally, but i think that we should get off the man's back and let him breathe! I have done some things that I'm not proud of, and I'm sure that my kids mother would tell you,going to the media & air out your business is wrong
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by Cary
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06/20/07 12:55 PM
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If the Twins want Wigginton so badly, make them take Dukes as well. We wouldn't need all that much back for that favor.
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