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'He pretty much stole any innocence'
As a former Pasco Fire Rescue chief pleads guilty to a lewd act, his victim tells her story.
By JAMAL THALJI, Times Staff Writer
Published August 10, 2007
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Douglas James Drape pleaded guilty in court and was declared a sexual predator.
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[Special to the Times]
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NEW PORT RICHEY - She was just 11 when he first showed her pornographic pictures.
Then he started touching her.
At age 12 he had her watching pornographic movies.
The sexual abuse escalated.
Then he started taking nude photographs of her.
Finally, at age 14, she'd had enough. No more, she told him.
And at age 15, she went to the authorities.
Douglas James Drape was arrested two years ago. He came to court Thursday to plead guilty to his crimes.
A judge declared him a sexual predator.
His victim, now 18, had another word for him:
Thief.
"He pretty much stole any innocence I would have had," she said.
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He used to be a battalion chief with Pasco Fire Rescue. He resigned soon after his February 2005 arrest.
The week before his arrest he was found with a .45-caliber semi-automatic, threatening suicide. Then he was arrested on charges including capital sexual battery. He faced life in prison.
His victim decided 15 years was enough punishment. Her name, and her relationship to Drape, are being withheld by the St. Petersburg Times because of the nature of the crime.
She signed off on the plea deal, which meant a guilty plea on a lesser charge of committing a lewd and lascivious act. After prison, Drape, 44, will serve 10 years of sex offender probation.
"I thought it was a more than fair agreement ...," she said Thursday. "It'll be plenty of time for him to think about what happened."
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It took her two days to get her statement ready. She read it to the judge, and to Drape.
She said that during the abuse he kept her trapped in the house. Soon she became trapped within herself, unwilling to let herself experience emotions.
He robbed her of more than freedom.
"Innocent things turned to disgusting things," she said. "I didn't have the normal problems that teenagers should have.
"I had abuse."
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Now, after all the therapy and counseling, she can feel again.
She starts college in the fall.
"It feels like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders," she said. "It's good to know he's not going to be able to hurt anyone else. Now I can move on with my life and not have this hovering over me all the time."
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She lives with her aunt now. That's her guardian. Mom took Drape's side, the victim said.
Mother and daughter no longer speak to each other.
"He was still taking things from me," she said, "even after the arrest."
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by wazzamattaU
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01/16/08 09:15 AM
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AJ is absolutely right. This has become an industry but don't ask questions about why it took you years to complain about it and get this poor slob in trouble.
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by Samantha
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08/15/07 12:49 AM
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Send the mother to prison. This is absolutely disgusting. I don't understand people anymore.
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by m
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08/14/07 10:52 AM
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If the mother knew this was going on and let it happen without intervention, then she is also guilty and is a perpetrator by ommission. She, too, should be sent to prison. Taking his side is a clear sign of her own dysfunction and perversion.
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by mimi
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08/11/07 07:48 AM
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I am 68 and was molested by a Cantor at our church from 7-10. Then raped by some older boys in my town. I wasnt able to tell anyone and it's ruiend my whole life I have had help for years but it colors everything inone's world forever. God Bless her
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by Mary
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08/10/07 10:59 PM
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Kudos to the victim....she is a hero...
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by Jean
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08/10/07 09:35 PM
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May the Healing be Completed as you move to College. God Be With You and Your Aunt. Friend of one who suffered same abuse many years ago. Mothers eyes were opened when he did it to the two younger daughters.
Be Strong and God Bless You
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by Mimi
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08/10/07 08:46 PM
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fg and Aj why not read up on molestation and children.Things happen to children they don't have words for.No comprehension of.She probably was silent because deep inside she knew her mom.Its amazing how many "mothers" side with abusers.Pathetic.
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by JH
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08/10/07 05:42 PM
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Not fair to blame a young girl, esp when her abuser was an authority figure... and a FIREFIGHTER on top of that. They're supposed to be the ones you run TO, not away from.
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by gg
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08/10/07 04:55 PM
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I hope this girl finds some comfort and peace in all this. As for these Sicko PERVS they make me want to throw up! justice would be ...the death penalty theres no rehabiliting people like this and they're everywhere!
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by by EMF
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08/10/07 04:40 PM
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God bless the aunt who took her in, who stood by her and changed her life. God bless the child who came forward and put a stop to the abuse. The mother will have to answer to God for her stupidity. Some people shouldn't have children. God bless you.
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by Mals
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08/10/07 04:37 PM
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I was molested form around 4 till about 7,I was then Raped 2 times a teen was this my fault?To this day my parents still wouldn't beleive it happened.So who's at fault?Yes I talk to them but we are not close.
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by Hoshi
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08/10/07 02:25 PM
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You should be glad you were able to tell your story and receive justice - many of us will forever be silent victims. I was abused by many foster homes and have no recourse or action to take. So I am glad you saw justice and your preditor was caught
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by Kay
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08/10/07 01:42 PM
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Hey, mom was not the guilty party and just because she sided w/ him, that is not illegal, just really really dumb. Even if she didn't believe her daughter, she should still be supporting her.
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by Doug
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08/10/07 12:34 PM
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Definately the Mother should be going to prison too.
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by TT
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08/10/07 12:13 PM
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This is not about SEX... It is about power and control from an authority figure. The best thing he can do now is to admit to his victim he was wrong and it was not HER fault at all. Hopefully he will get help and address his own issuesas well.
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by T.J.
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08/10/07 11:25 AM
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bunch of prev's on here it's her fault,NOT! anyone who molest's a child should be locked up period, or cut it off
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by laura
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08/10/07 11:15 AM
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Did you read the story -fg - the "Mother" took the side of the molester - why are charges not filed agenst her? - that should be the question! and if anyone knows AJ - he should not be trusted around young children .............
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by sady
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08/10/07 11:03 AM
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I still have not said anything about the 2 men who abused me as a child between the ages of 11-16. It's comments like AJ's that keep people silent. I am proud of this girl's courage, I wish I had it.
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by Mike
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08/10/07 10:56 AM
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It's too bad he didn't pull the trigger when he was threating suicide. Don't blame the girl. This guy is scum.
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by RB
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08/10/07 10:48 AM
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The Mother should have gotten the life sentence! How can any Mother let that happen to her child and then stand up for the molester? She should be in jail too!
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by R. Fix
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08/10/07 10:44 AM
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Its hypocritical to post this story of the terrible damage and pain one person's sexual perversion caused this young woman, then promote and advertise sexual perversion as cool and interesting fun. "Fetish Con" article by Jay Cridilin. SHAME ON YOU
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by chele
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08/10/07 10:38 AM
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11 is old enough to know that this authority figure could hurt her or someone else . When victims see those kind of comments they are less likely to come forward. They are made to feel like its their fault, not only by the offender , but everyone
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by jack s
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08/10/07 10:32 AM
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The mom should go to jail too.
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by Carol
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08/10/07 10:16 AM
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What a strong, courageous young woman! Given her mom's allegiance to a sexual predator, she is better off with mom out of her life. fg - you're right, don't blame the victim, 11 is young and this man was clearly a person of authority in her life.
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by A J
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08/10/07 10:12 AM
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It took three years for this victim to turn this poor slob in? Watching porn on TV is now 'abuse'? This sounds like a policewoman's press release trying to brag about how she's caught another male and saved us all!
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by fg
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08/10/07 08:37 AM
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Where was her mother during all of this molestation!! And anyway ... the girl should have told someone when he first showed her the porn... I know we shouldn't blame young victims. But this girl was old enough to know what was happening.
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by Sherry
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08/10/07 07:40 AM
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THis young woman's courage
is inspiring. Bless her healing heart.
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