Graham grandson returns to the flock

His prodigal son story includes a new book and leading a church in south Florida.

MARGATE - The pastor's hair is spiky, his beard is scruffy, his skin is tan. He talks of his youthful forays into drugs and sex. Even his name - Tullian Tchividjian - is far different from that of his famous grandfather.

He calls the family patriarch Daddy Bill. That's Billy Graham to you.

Tchividjian cuts a far different profile than evangelicalism's elder statesman. It's not that he isn't proud of his heritage. But at 34, back in the fold, with a book just out and a congregation to call his own, he says the spiritual path he's forging is all his own.

"I'm not sure that carrying my grandfather's torch is what I or any other young evangelical would want said about us," he said in an interview at his office here. "There's a distinction of what God has called me to do and what God has called him to do."

That struggle - between who he is and what his family represents - has been playing out throughout Tchividjian's life.

The middle of seven children born to Stephan Tchividjian and Graham's eldest daughter, Gigi, the young minister said he couldn't figure out where he fit in growing up. So he turned to familiar distractions.

"I rebelled against everything my family stood for," he said.

At 16, unable to obey his parents' basic rules (like not bringing drugs in the house), he was escorted by police from his home. He dropped out of school and spent the next five years partying on South Beach, seeking the company of women and getting high.

"I was a wild man. I lived a no-holds-barred lifestyle," Tchividjian said. "If I believed it would bring me maximum pleasure in the moment, I did it, no matter what it was."

Eventually, he said, he bottomed out. He arrived home late one night, coming down from a high and literally fell to the floor.

"God, I have tried my best to ignore you and to do things my way," he remembers praying. "I'm broken. I'm broken and in need of fixing."

A classic prodigal son story followed. Tchividjian recommitted himself to Christ, entered the seminary, became a minister. He married and had three children. He started the New City Presbyterian Church, a 450-member church in Coconut Creek. He wrote a book, Do I Know God?, released Tuesday, in which he asks readers to ponder the title's question.

New City's music director Brandon Wells, a college friend of Tchividjian, said he sees similarities between grandfather and grandson. Wells said Tchividjian is a traditionalist who stays close to the podium when delivering a sermon, uses notes and takes his message very seriously.

"Their gifts are different but they both possess a unique gift of communicating the Gospel simply," Wells said of Graham and his grandson. "Tullian has a more scholarly approach to his preaching ministry than I think his granddad did, but he takes his learning and he's able to sort of distill it into language that I think everyone can understand."

Graham describes his grandson's return to faith and the message he promulgates in his book. He calls it an answer to his prayer.

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