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Bullying costs school $4M
Parents of a student at Hillel School of Tampa sue after a bully breaks their son's arm.
By COLLEEN JENKINS, Times Staff Writer
Published October 23, 2007
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- By watson:
i think the school should pay thats a shame kids are scared to got to school because they are afraid because another student wants to harm them.
- By Charlie:
As the judge on TV says, "Ca ching-ca ching" let the cash register ring.
- By ew: The parents of the child that did the bullying should fork over at least half! Parents need to take responsibility for their bad parenting.
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TAMPA -- After a bully attacked Danny Heidenberg at Hillel School of Tampa, his parents complained to the principal of the Jewish community day school.
When the bully broke 12-year-old Danny's arm in January 2004, they sued.
On Monday, a Hillsborough jury ordered the school to pay $4-million for failing to keep Danny safe.
Now 16, he has permanent nerve damage in his left hand and likely won't be able to follow in his surgeon parents' footsteps. The verdict sends a strong message to schools, the family's attorney said.
"Schools have to wake up to the point that bullying is serious and supervision is serious," said David Tirella, an attorney with Cohen, Jayson & Foster. "They allowed a bully to escalate."
Hillel officials and their attorney would not comment.
Jurors, some of them parents and grandparents, had to decide whether Danny's injuries resulted from unavoidable roughhousing between preteen boys or the school faculty's inadequate supervision of bullying.
The issue isn't unique to Hillel, a private school on Fletcher Avenue. During the 2006-07 school year, Hillsborough public schools reported 266 bullying incidents. Officials concede such incidents are vastly under-reported.
Lewis Brinson, Hillsborough's assistant superintendent for administration, said he constantly warns principals that someone is going to get sued for negligence if they are not vigilant about addressing bullying.
"They're probably tired of me saying it," he said.
Danny Heidenberg and his parents, board-certified doctors Howard Heidenberg and Sandra Goodman, claim everyone knew a certain student at Hillel was a bully.
The bully, a 7th-grader like Danny, called students names, taunted them and beat them up. Football games at recess were supposed to be "touch only," but the student purposely hit other boys hard enough to hurt them, according to the lawsuit.
Danny's parents complained in late 2003 after learning the student had assaulted their son at least twice. Dr. Heidenberg asked the principal to protect Danny.
If the school took any action to address the bully's behavioral issues, it didn't work.
On Jan. 29, 2004, a group of boys played contact football at the school. The bell rang. A teacher directed them inside.
The teacher went in ahead of students, the suit said. The bully chastised Danny for not joining the football game. Then he threw a football at Danny and tackled him.
Danny tried to get up. The bully jumped him, breaking two bones in his left arm. Danny screamed in pain.
After three surgeries, Danny still suffers from paralysis, Tirella said. He can't control each individual finger on his left hand. He can't type. Once a ranked junior tennis player, he now struggles for playing time on his Tampa Preparatory team.
Dr. Goodman, Danny's mother, described his injuries as "a permanent, lifelong disability" but didn't want to linger on his limitations.
She said the lawsuit was about "accountability and moral justice," not money.
"So much of this is letting him know that there is justice," she said. "This has been so incredibly emotionally painful for my husband and myself and for my son."
Of the $4-million verdict, the jury awarded $2.8-million to Danny for past and future pain and suffering. He also got $30,000 for medical expenses, Tirella said.
Brinson said public schools should take notice of the jury's decision.
"At no time should students be unsupervised," he said. "No time. It's just not acceptable."
The bully was not named in the lawsuit. Tirella said the school also let him down by not helping him change his behavior.
The family hasn't gotten the apology it hoped for from Hillel officials. But during the week-long trial, Tirella said, the boy who bullied Danny said he was sorry.
Staff writer Letitia Stein contributed to this story. Colleen Jenkins can be reached at cjenkins@sptimes.com or (813) 226-3337.
[Last modified October 23, 2007, 18:57:41]
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by Coach
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03/11/08 08:12 AM
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As mentioned, it comes down to parenting. These days parents are too busy to parent so it's been left to the schools, but then the parents have stripped away teacher's ability to parent their child. We're powerless. It's like go to war, but no gun.
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by Todd
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03/10/08 08:41 AM
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Yeah, right. Just say your sorry and everything will go away. I am angry that not enough was done about the bully's responsibility. A teacher can be standing right by a student like that and he could still do punch the lights out of someone.
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by Sharron
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03/07/08 02:09 PM
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I do feel sorry for the victim here. Ok now how does the school prevent this from happening again. Will they provide each teacher with an additional pair of eyes to catch these guys in action. My advice to parents:Home school (it's the safest method)
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by Bob
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03/07/08 12:30 PM
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Yes, let's teach the bully not to hit by hitting him (spanking)
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by Diane
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03/07/08 11:25 AM
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I'd like to know if before this incident the bully was sent to an administrator for bullying and nothing was done. If administrators do not support their teachers no one wins.
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by Jennifer
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03/07/08 08:20 AM
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I teach first grade and have a bully in my room. So far it has not been to physical, but if parents and schools don't get tough with him, he will end up this kind of bully! They usually start out early as bullies and it needs to be stopped early!
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by Jennifer
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03/07/08 12:21 AM
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Anyone else find it insane that the SCHOOL is punished and neither the bully nor his parents are held responsible? I teach, and I can't tell you how many times I have been told by parents that I should not be disciplining their kids. So what's left?
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by mary
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03/06/08 09:23 PM
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People take more notice to problems if money is involved.I'm tired of children not being afraid.Who's at fault?#1 are the parents for not raising their son better but the school is at fault for not watching a problem they were notified about.
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by Wally
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03/06/08 06:45 PM
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Two of us watch about 300 students outside. It is hard to see everything that goes on. Parents need to teach their kids better at home. There is no discipline at home or the kid is not made to be held accountable for his actions. Get the Parents.
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by Ranee
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03/06/08 06:00 PM
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It's sad because no one wins. 1 kid is traumatized, 1 kid gets away with bullying, & now a school is out $4 million. How does this help solve the problem. Instead of suing, there should've been some new plans put into action on all parties.
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by Lisa
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03/06/08 04:25 PM
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If the teacher waited for the last 2 kids, the kids that went in 1st would have been unsupervised.Teachers do their best to help but bullies are very sneaky.Most teachers would love to remove those problem students from class, their hands are tied.
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by Jan
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03/06/08 04:17 PM
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I agaree that bullying is serious, but speaking as a teacher, I must comment that it is often nearly impossible to monitor each student all the time. In the situation mentioned, it is hard to watch the beginning AND the end of the line of students.
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by Heather
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03/06/08 04:11 PM
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What is considered unsupervision. Opening the door ahead of a line, is that unsupervision of the back of the line??
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by Linda
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03/06/08 03:54 PM
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Ok, so the parent of the injured student were wealthy, why did they not move the kid to another school. They knew the bully picked on their boy and other kids. My thought would be, get their son out of that school. The bully needs a good spanking.
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by Ann
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03/06/08 03:16 PM
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The "Bully" needs to take responsibility also. How many times has he just had to say sorry and then go on about his business. He needs to man up & pay restitution. He will just go on to bully someone else.
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by Angela
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03/06/08 02:39 PM
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The jury needs to try to supervise middle school kids with over 30 to a class with the "rules" that have been placed on educators by parents of today. Where is the accountablity of the student that did this and his parents. What is his punishment?
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by Tom
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01/13/08 09:56 PM
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I've read mostly common sense based reactions. But the school setting today is about PC not common sense. Parents who scream the loudest, or threaten lawsuits, get their way. I've been a teacher for 30 years, it's not what it used to be which is sad!
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by Linda
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12/31/07 01:44 AM
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The parents of the bully are culpable for their child's behavior. WE educatiors need to have zero tolerance to aberrant behavior at the first offense. Deep pockets shoulf not allowed to be targeted. Parents need to make the bully responsible.
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by mel
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11/05/07 04:51 PM
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Sometime juries need to see that all unfortunate incidents can't be avoided, nor can schools control all behavior. This is an unfortunate incident, but hardly one that warrants this much money to be awarded from a school that probably does its best.
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by Jean
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10/30/07 03:39 PM
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Bullying distroys human potential, agreed. I'm sick of the schools being the antidote for lousy parenting. The school let the bully down? Please! I've suspended my share of bullies and will continue to do so. Sue the parents; they created the bully.
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by Dan
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10/29/07 08:35 AM
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Once again, the schools and the attendant educators are named as "perps" in a situation where the controls are placed on them by the "SYSTEM." Teachers can't do in 8 hours what the parents refuse to do the other 16. Let the Parents share the blame!
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by MC
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10/26/07 12:34 PM
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The only that is ridiculous about this case is that nothing was done to ensure Danny's safety. Bullying is not what it use to be. It might have been "teasing" back in the day, but now it is harassment & taunting.
Parents and schools- BEWARE!!
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by jake
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10/25/07 08:52 PM
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You have know clue what your talking about eileen I went to the school with the so called "bully". this case is ridiculuous
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by Lynn
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10/25/07 07:14 PM
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Kudos! Now, take the money and sponsor some Challenge Days. Otherwise, This suit teaches bullies that someone else pays for his actions! Why were no charges made against the child for assault? It's a heart issue...invest...maybe it will save another
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by robin
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10/25/07 03:15 PM
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Why is it wrong to remove kids (who can't behave) from school? It seems it would be less expensive to educate them in a more restrictive environment than to keep them in public/private school. Schools should be allowed to be proactive not reactive.
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by Kelley
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10/24/07 07:14 PM
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The school isn't the only party that should be held responsible. Why is it that parents of bullies are left off of the hook. Teachers and schools cannot be fully responsible for individual student behavior. Where's the parenting ?
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by Ann
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10/24/07 06:13 PM
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In civil suits part of a high money award may be compensatory damages, but the other part is often punitive, to 'deter' others from doing the same thing-- set an example, if you will.
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by Ann
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10/24/07 06:03 PM
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People who are bullied are targets. Bullies steal: human potential, mental health and teacher time from other children. Bullies are poison, not a cultural rite of passage artifact from the 50's. No one wins. Virginia Tech families can likely attest.
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by Tina
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10/24/07 05:17 PM
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My son gets picked on by a lot of kids. He is small, smart and kind. The nurse has called four times, and the dean has called twice. 9 weeks in school and my son has been attacked 6 times. The A.P. says that there is not enough supervision. WHAT
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by Joe
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10/24/07 09:16 AM
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i always oppose lawsuits but this verdict will make schools wake up to the fact that this is going on. schools need more power to discipline students. teachers can't even yell at kids anymore. columbine happened because kids were bullied.
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by Dave
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10/24/07 06:18 AM
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The people that advocate punching the bully and such really have not been on the other side. These days, if you do that you will get suspended. The parents did the right things. I'm sure for some of you there is outrage because they are Jewish.
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by Eileen
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10/24/07 01:45 AM
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The people who are unhappy about this award are probably bullies themselves. They want their kids to dominate the playground and intimidate other kids because they equate this with success and power. I hope this lawsuit sends a strong message.
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by Eileen
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10/24/07 01:39 AM
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Thank goodness the bullying was protested by the parents, and the child was treated and removed from the school. Bullying has led to horrific school tragedies when desperate victims take revenge into their own hands. Schools and bullies take note.
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by Dave
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10/24/07 12:42 AM
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If the school had taken action against the bully they probably would be sued by the bully's parents. Also, bullying doesnt take place in front of the teacher so what happens when the victim tells but has no proof and the bully denies it?
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by Tarpley
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10/23/07 10:01 PM
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When they say it's not about money, it's ALL ABOUT MONEY.
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