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She escaped; mom didn't
Teen says if she stayed, mom's boyfriend might have killed her, too.
By ABBIE VANSICKLE, Times Staff Writer
Published November 6, 2007
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Trevor McGinty and Wendy Dusza lived in a condo on Bayside Village Drive in Hillsborough County. Dusza's body was found Saturday in a storage unit they rented at the complex.
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[Family photo] Brittany Klodzinski says she and her family tried to convince her mother, Wendy Dusza, to end her relationship with McGinty.
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Police say Wendy Dusza, 34, was killed Oct. 25 or early Oct. 26.
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Trevor McGinty, 30, killed himself Sunday.
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TAMPA - Brittany Klodzinski saw into the future.
A child of split parents, the 14-year-old spent summers with her father in New York, and the rest of the year with her mother in Florida.
Until this year.
Her mom's boyfriend, Trevor H. McGinty, terrified Brittany. She begged her mom, Wendy Dusza, to leave him. When that didn't happen, Brittany refused to come back to Florida.
"I didn't want to go back to him," Brittany said from her grandmother's home in upstate New York. "If I would have gone back, it would have been me gone, too."
Dusza, 34, was found dead in a storage shed Saturday night, according to the Hillsborough Sheriff's Office. McGinty, 30, died of a single gunshot to the head Sunday at a Holiday Inn in Gainesville, deputies say.
Authorities say they don't know the motive of the slaying. Family became concerned when calls to Dusza went unanswered, the couple's dog and cat unfed. Investigators believe Dusza was killed late Oct. 25 or early Oct. 26 and put in the shed right away.
Daughter Brittany spoke with a reporter Monday on the condition that her grandmother could listen to the interview and end it if the questions were too upsetting.
"She's a great person," Brittany said of her mother. "She didn't deserve it, what she got. I liked when we hung out together when he wasn't around. Most of the time I was with her he was so demanding of her. I would always tell my mom that you could do better than this. That he doesn't deserve her. So, basically, I knew."
Dusza grew up near Buffalo, N.Y. Outgoing and sweet, she had a crush on a West Seneca West Senior High School classmate named Michael Klodzinski. She told his brother, Christopher Klodzinski, who played matchmaker.
About a year after high school, Brittany was born.
Dusza wanted to move to Florida, and so young Brittany moved south with her mother. She remembers happy times like a trip to New York City for Central Park ice-skating at Christmas.
"She was always for her daughter, that's the sad thing about this," Christopher Klodzinski, 35, said. "She didn't want to give her daughter up."
About three years ago, Dusza met McGinty. Klodzinski thought they met through a car dealership.
Much remains unknown about McGinty's past. His parents, who live in Downers Grove, Ill., did not return a call from the St. Petersburg Times.
About four or five years ago, McGinty worked as a manager at the Central Avenue Oyster Bar in downtown St. Petersburg.
After they started dating, Dusza and McGinty went into a mortgage business together, said sheriff's spokeswoman Debbie Carter. McGinty's voice mail message said he worked for "First Mutual Mortgage."
They moved into a new, custom-built, three-bedroom home at 12320 Papercraft Ave. in a subdivision in Weeki Wachee. Brittany moved with them.
Lisa Noble first met the family at a neighborhood barbecue.
The Nobles began to notice curious things. McGinty was never outside, even when Dusza and her daughter were tending the lawn. He seemed controlling and condescending to his girlfriend, Noble said. Visitors were rare, and visits brought drama.
"It was like a Jerry Springer show in the front yard," she said.
Court records show the two families filed injunctions against each other. Noble, in a complaint, wrote she awoke one night to see McGinty speeding up and down the road in a Jeep. Brittany was in the back with her dog, screaming in fear.
On Thanksgiving Day, McGinty was arrested, accused of discharging a firearm in public and using a firearm while under the influence of alcohol, court records show.
Brittany remembers that day. McGinty got angry and shot up the turkey fryer, she said. Brittany and her mom left the house unharmed.
Dusza's family tried to persuade her to leave for good.
"My family did everything in their power to try to stop this from happening," Brittany said.
On Feb. 23, the Hernando County Sheriff's Office charged McGinty with domestic battery. At first, he was ordered not to contact Dusza, but she later asked that they be allowed to see each other because they ran a business together. She added the couple was expecting guests from Chicago for an engagement party, court records show.
Her request was granted.
McGinty pleaded no contest and drew a year's probation.
On Oct. 19, the court entered a default judgment for LaSalle Bank for a foreclosure on the Papercraft Avenue house. Dusza and McGinty had two loans totalling more than $250,000, records show. They moved to a condo on Bayside Village Drive in Hillsborough County and rented a storage unit at the complex.
On Oct. 23, deputies were called to the Papercraft Avenue house. Neighbors thought someone was breaking in, but McGinty told deputies he was selling the appliances.
As part of McGinty's domestic violence charge, he had to complete a Batterer's Intervention Program. The letter of completion from Growing Center Counseling in Brooksville was added to the court file Oct. 25.
Less than a day later, Dusza was dead.
Times staff writer John Frank and news researchers John Martin and Angie Drobnic Holan contributed to this report. Abbie VanSickle can be reached at 813 226-3373 or vansickle@sptimes.com. Fast facts
Help sought for pet
Wendy Dusza left behind her dog, a red hound mix named Lucky. Hillsborough County Animal Services is asking for donations to fly Lucky north to live with Dusza's daughter, Brittany. Donations should be designated for "Lucky Transport," with checks made out to Hillsborough County Animal Services, 440 Falkenburg Road, Tampa, 33619. Dusza's boyfriend's cat was placed in another home.
How to help others
These Tampa Bay area agencies can help people in violent relationships:
The Spring: A provider of domestic violence services since 1977 in the Tampa Bay area. www.thespring.org, (813) 247-7233
CASA: A domestic violence agency in the St. Petersburg area. www.casa-stpete.org, (727) 895-4912
The Haven of RCS: A domestic violence agency in North Pinellas County. www.havenrcs.org, (727) 584-3528
Source: The Spring
[Last modified November 5, 2007, 23:56:17]
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by mel
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11/15/07 08:03 AM
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rip sweetie
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by JOHN
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11/09/07 09:08 PM
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YES THEY DID MEET IN A CAR DEALERSHIP I WORKED WITH TREVE FOR A YEAR AND WENDY STARTED WORKING THERE I KNEW WENDY FOR ABOUT 4 MONTHS SHE WAS A WONDERFUL GIRL SO FULL OF LIFE. TREVER WAS A LOOSE CANNON FROM THE GET GO... LOVE IS BLIND SORRY WENDY RIP
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by KIM
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11/09/07 08:28 AM
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BRITTANY IS MY BFFL AND WENDY WAS LIKE A 2ND MOM TO ME EVEN THOUGH TREVOR NEVOR LIKED ME BECAUSE I WOULD TRY TO GET WENDY TO LEAVE HIM! THE ONLY THING I ASK IF FOR BRITT TO STAY SAFE! I LOVE YOU GUYS AND I'LL NEVER FORGET ALL THE GREAT TIMES WE HAD!!
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by Bree
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11/08/07 10:31 AM
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RIP Wendy.I wish you could've got away like I did.My heartfelt sympathy to Brittany and her family.
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by mr bob
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11/07/07 06:39 PM
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I will never see her smile or hear her voice but i know she will live on forever through her daughter. love ay brit miss you wendy mr bob.
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by K
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11/07/07 05:22 PM
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Yes it was Paul's daughter
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by Kris
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11/07/07 12:32 PM
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Does anyone know if this is relation to Paul Dusza? I know he is from Cheektowaga just like her, and she is not much older...
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by Carmen
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11/07/07 11:23 AM
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How much does it cost to send the dog? Maybe an airline can donate the airfare for the dog's travel. This is an unusual extenuating circumstance, and it would be great p.r. for the airline.
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by kathleen
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11/07/07 09:53 AM
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Please keep the public informed about the dog's being returned to Brittany. Thanks!
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by Anne
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11/07/07 06:25 AM
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Some abused women stay in these relationships, knowing that law enforcement and the courts won't do enough to protect them if they chose to leave. Ask the SPPD how many arrests they have made for violation of an injunction?
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by michele
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11/06/07 11:45 PM
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wendy was a great person she was a real fun person to bearound i am a long time friend from years ago we had so many great times she was always smiling she will be very missed
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by bob
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11/06/07 11:02 PM
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Love is wonderful. I can hardly wait for Valentines day!
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by stevoco
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11/06/07 10:58 PM
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Britt: how do they get out of these relationships?? don't get into them! ladies: have some respect for yourself! you don't need a man to pay the bills. stories like this irritate me, senseless. take care of yourself first. single mom and proud.
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by Tj
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11/06/07 08:04 PM
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God Bless you sweetheart....he will rot in hell.....
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by Kelly
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11/06/07 07:17 PM
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My heart goes out to the daughter and to the rest of their family. Men should NEVER beat women. Battered women ALWAYS deserve better. Violence is never the answer.
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by Laura
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11/06/07 06:58 PM
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I can't believe the SPT would print Tony's comment. You and he are both idiots. Bet you won't print this.
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by Jessica
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11/06/07 06:07 PM
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What a shame that a mother choose a boyfriend over her own daughter. This could have been completely avoided if she had done the right thing in being a mother to her daughter.
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by Mark
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11/06/07 05:43 PM
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I am thankful that these people didn't have children. Appears that both had some unhealthy issues and its disturbing that the friends/family didn't take further steps to get more involved. Whether your told to mind your own business - get involved.
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by Brit's Uncle Chris
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11/06/07 04:53 PM
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Brittany is a strong, beatiful girl. She is surronded by family that love and adore her very much. She is in a good place now, and all of us will never forget Wendy. Nobody deserves the fate that Wendy meet that terrible night. God Bless her!!!
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by phylicia
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11/06/07 04:32 PM
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These men know the weak ones when they see them. Thats why at the first sign of agression you need to either end it right there ...or respond to it in a way that he thinks you've completely lost your freaking mind!!
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by karinisha
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11/06/07 03:40 PM
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that was so sad cause her daughter worned her
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by Jim
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11/06/07 02:41 PM
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Women need to get out of abusive relationships. There are resources available. I think this story will serve as a precautionary tale. My heart goes out to the daughter and family.
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by Belinda
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11/06/07 02:00 PM
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This is heartbreaking. I also want to commend those for helping the beloved pets left behind.
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by Diana
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11/06/07 01:55 PM
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The old saying goes "Love is blind" -- everyone can usually foresee trouble or violence except the one(s) involved. Look REAL close if your companion shows aggression. In 1986 lives changed forever when I shot/killed my boyfriend ruled self-defense
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by Kaeli
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11/06/07 01:14 PM
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Brittany sounds like a very articulate young lady. My heart and prayers go out to her in light of the loss of her mother. Thank God she had the wisdom to get out of there.
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by Carrie
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11/06/07 11:22 AM
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My heart goes out to all whom are in violent situations. Get out now. There is help out there. Men who beat women are WIMPS, they think there in control. There not, do not let them.
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by shuman
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11/06/07 11:22 AM
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she seemed beautiful, he looked wierd. How did it ever start. Car dealership?
The lord definately worked in a mysterious way this time. God Bless her.
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by Sarah
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11/06/07 10:52 AM
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Her poor daughter. But what maturity and foresight! I hope for the best for her. Times: keep us apprised of the donations for the dog. I'd like to know if and when he is sent to Brittany.
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by Britt
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11/06/07 07:12 AM
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Absolutely horrible story. How in the world are women supposed to get out of relationships like these? The law has not caught up yet with these disgusting pigs. I will be praying for poor Brittany, Thank God she got out of there.
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