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Feel-good story takes an ugly turn
Ben Moffitt's wife says he has left the family, and that she did some of his USF coursework.
By GREG AUMAN, Times Staff Writer
Published January 4, 2008
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Ben Moffitt has been portrayed as a caring family man during his USF playing days. "He is living a lie," his wife of five years says now. Records show divorce papers were filed Thursday.
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[Chris Livingston | Special to the Times]
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[Chris Livingston | Special to the Times]
Ben Moffitt, who finished his USF football career Monday, poses with son Trevor, wife Shauna and daughter Rylan in September. Moffitt said Thursday that it is "very unfortunate" that his latest family situation was made public.
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[Chris Livingston | Special to the Times]
When Ben Moffitt, shown with Shauna last year, and other seniors were honored in November, his family did not attend.
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TAMPA - For the past four years, Ben Moffitt has been a standout linebacker for USF, celebrated just as much as a father and husband who made a daily 55-mile commute from campus to be with his family.
It was a heartwarming story, told everywhere from local papers to ESPN to the New York Times. But for nearly two months, it has been a much different story.
Shauna Moffitt said Thursday that her husband left her with their two children, ages 5 and 3, on Nov. 11 - the day after the Bulls ended a three-game losing streak with a win at Syracuse - and has had limited contact with them since. Throughout his time at USF, his scholarship money has helped pay for the rent or mortgage, but since leaving their Bushnell home in Sumter County, he has not done anything to support his family financially, she said.
"He is living a lie," she said. "He's lying to everyone. He's not helping us with anything."
Their marriage of five years has deteriorated to the point that Shauna, 26, made public Thursday a larger allegation, that she had taken multiple online courses for her husband and written papers for his college classes to keep him eligible to play football.
"I have written every single paper he has ever written in five years at USF," said Shauna, a data specialist in the Sumter County Appraiser's Office.
Moffitt, reached by phone Thursday afternoon, said it is "very unfortunate" that the matter had been made public but declined further comment, referring questions to divorce attorney A.J. Rohe in Tavares. Sumter County records showed that divorce papers were filed on Moffitt's behalf Thursday.
"It's our position that it's harmful to the children when this personal stuff is aired in the papers," said Rohe, who said he was retained by Moffitt on Thursday. "We're disappointed that she would choose to do something in an attempt to damage his reputation and his potential for future earnings."
Moffitt's wife and children were noticeably absent on the field when USF's seniors were honored before their final home game in November. Questioned a week later after USF's game at Pittsburgh, Moffitt said the relationship was fine.
Asked why he wasn't wearing his wedding ring, he said it was in his pocket, that he didn't wear it during games.
The family is well-known to fans; Shauna was interviewed on ESPNU during the game at Florida Atlantic this season, and Ben brought his 5-year-old son to postgame news conferences.
USF has marketed Moffitt, 23, as a family man, touting him for national awards with the phrase: "Linebacker. Leader. Husband. Father." Moffitt, who started 43 games, was a quarterfinalist for the Lott Trophy, which considers off-field contributions as well as football accomplishments.
Moffitt has continued to perpetuate the feel-good story that USF has promoted. Last week, as the Bulls prepared for the Sun Bowl in El Paso, Texas, he was interviewed about his family life by the Register-Guard, telling the newspaper in Oregon: "It's a weird balance. It can be hard, but it also just comes with the territory I guess, and it's been working out."
After their initial separation, Shauna said Ben visited the children twice a week, but that stopped after a month. She said she does not know where he is living, and he has changed his cell phone, initially calling from a blocked number before giving her the number.
Moffitt finished his USF career Monday with 331 total tackles, second only to Kawika Mitchell (367, 1999-2002). He is a projected midround pick in April's NFL draft, rated by ESPN's Mel Kiper as the fourth-best inside linebacker in this season's class.
The athletic department declined comment on the academic allegations and referred questions to USF spokesman Ken Gullette. Asked what students must do to confirm online class work as their own, Gullette was unable find someone in position to offer answers.
It's doubtful USF would face sanctioning unless it could be shown officials were aware of academic wrongdoing, and there's nothing to suggest that. NCAA spokesman Bob Williams said there is precedent for action being taken regarding athletes determined to be ineligible after the fact.
"If a player was deemed ineligible for academic reasons, there have been records vacated, but it would depend on the individual circumstances," he said. "I don't know what checks and balances were in place. Suffice it to say there is an expectation that a student-athlete would do his or her own work."
Greg Auman can be reached at auman@sptimes.com and at (813) 226-3346. Check out his blog at blogs.tampabay.com/usf.
[Last modified January 4, 2008, 00:21:54]
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by USFMom
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01/14/08 11:53 PM
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Shauna Moffit was 20 years old & pregnant when she & 17 year old Ben were married before his senior year in high school. Should Ben & his family press charges against her since Ben was still a minor? This is about bitterness & revenge for her.
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by A
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01/06/08 08:53 AM
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If she has a good atty she will get plenty of the NFL's $$ in monthly installments ...lol to say the least!!
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by Michelle
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01/06/08 08:32 AM
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Beaty starts on the inside. How can people comment on a marriage they truly know nothing about. Work on your own marriages and stay out of other people lives. Keep your personal life out of the media for the sake of your kids.
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by Brenda
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01/05/08 08:23 PM
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She should be charge for being with a minor from time he was 14 years old. Let it had been the other way around she would have cry out Fox too. Half the story has not been told about this woman.
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by Andrew
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01/05/08 02:02 AM
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Everyone jumps to conclusions, especially the media. He left less than 2 months ago. I know when I left my marriage I was told by my lawyer NOT to pay any money to my ex until certain legal paperwork was taken care of. Give him a chance!
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by Alan Bell
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01/05/08 01:30 AM
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What do you expect from the new "Thug U"?
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by Ann
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01/04/08 11:08 PM
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She could be jeopardizing her job now that she's admitted to helping him cheat. Sumter Co Govt has rules against defrauding a govt agency. No job for her! No degree for him! Great financial planning, Moffitt family!
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by Chris
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01/04/08 08:59 PM
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When is somebody going to say something about Leavitt and how he runs this program. It's like the inmates are running the prison, and Leavitt is the head Con. This program has too many kids who are, or have been in trouble, what a bunch of thugs
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by susan
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01/04/08 08:11 PM
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some of you people disgust me. just because she is heavy does not mean she let herself go. It could be a medical problem. Julie..it should be hell hath no fury like a girl scorned, any size girl. he needs to take care of his kids regardless.
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by Michele
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01/04/08 07:45 PM
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I am disappointed that as a mother she would put this situation out in the media. Whether the media gets it or not is not going to make a difference on the $$/support that she will get from him. It will however make a difference with the kids.
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by Super
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01/04/08 06:58 PM
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I find the comments here to be funny. Like any of you have a real clue what's going on, and yet you say things like he's a deadbeat and loser? Get off your chairs and go look in the mirror for a while.
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by B
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01/04/08 06:11 PM
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Which one is Ben and which one is Shauna?
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by Gabriel
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01/04/08 05:45 PM
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Only fitting to end the season with this story. It seems this marriage was smoke and mirrors....much like USF's success. In the end, all that is left is the truth. Leavitt runs a shady program, and the city of Tampa looks the worse for it.
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by J
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01/04/08 04:21 PM
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Both are cheaters, only her actions will more likely have a negative impact on her career - the NFL won't care. And gee, do you think having HIS two kids and sitting at a computer typing his papers could lead her togain weight? Shame on them both!
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by Rick
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01/04/08 03:46 PM
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Unfortunately, Ben's wife has let herself go quite a bit. Perhaps a diet could help her get her man back? I mean, let's be real - he's going to the NFL and needs a wife to take care of herself a little more. Maybe I'm just being shallow...
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by Ann
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01/04/08 03:18 PM
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In my experience there are always three sides in divorce - his, hers and the TRUTH! She should be encouraging him to get into the NFL and pay child support & alimony!! She's cutting off her own nose.
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by Mike
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01/04/08 03:05 PM
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Pity all of you who comment that her gaining weight merits her being abandoned. You don't know what love is.
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by Jimbo
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01/04/08 02:46 PM
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She did his homework, he worked out for her. In the end, he stood to gain a career and fortune, and she was left with kids to raise. Once he makes his riches, he probably give her money while he moves on to a trophy wife. What's new(s)?
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by M
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01/04/08 02:09 PM
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Shame on her for airing their dirty laundry. he is a wonderful father. The woman is nuts! Though it's nobody's business, but their own. It's a divorce people, never an easy/amicable thing. She needs to zip it, the children will reap the benefits.
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by Julie
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01/04/08 12:28 PM
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Hell hath no wrath like a fat girl scorned
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by Lee
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01/04/08 12:14 PM
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The dude's an irresponsible, faithless, and ignorant fraud. Like his missus, we'd all be richer for having lost him.
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by Bill
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01/04/08 12:06 PM
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Maybe he left her because she is a dummy....or a liar....at any rate, why air dirty laundry like this?
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by Will
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01/04/08 10:32 AM
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Ben, we hardly knew ya. Be the man you say you are and support your kids. Man up. Hiring a lawyer and filing for divorce on the same day? Give me a break. FYI, she is still going to get half, maybe more.
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by robert
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01/04/08 10:29 AM
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Your kids always come first knucklehead. Hopefully you will be a mid round draft pick and makes tons of cash. Hopefully you will have a long NFL career. But always remember your children will be with you the rest of your life. Dont be a sleazeball.
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by Bam
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01/04/08 09:58 AM
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Shame on the wife for airing dirty laundry and being bitter. It's a divorce, the gloves are coming off!
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by Paul
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01/04/08 09:49 AM
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What a fraud! I hope the NCAA throws the book at USF. If he didn't do his own coursework there should be probation, loss of scholarships, maybe even forfeit losses. What a sham and liar Moffitt is. Glad they got schooled in the bowl game.
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by jon
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01/04/08 09:31 AM
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lets she she got pregnant when she was 21 and he was 18. She blimped out and he wised up. And now she is trashing him.
Shame on him for not taking care of the kids if he isnt, otherwise rock on.
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by CW
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01/04/08 09:24 AM
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This goes beyond football. The problem is getting married and having kids at such a young age. Yep, Ben should have been "playing the field" too. All college kids should be. It's college. Committments Marriage & kids are too serious for kids that age
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by david
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01/04/08 09:08 AM
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He didn't want it to become public well thats what happens when you cry about driving to class and practice. GROW UP little boy!! Now pay up cause she has got part of any money your gonna make. Ha ha
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by K
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01/04/08 09:01 AM
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Seems like real nice timing for him to file for divorce...if he gets a lucrative NFL contract, his wife will likely not see very much of it.
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by Tom
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01/04/08 08:57 AM
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Looks like the little lady would really clog up the run if you played her at defensive tackle!
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by Lisa
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01/04/08 08:51 AM
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Lesson to kids everywhere: don't marry young. Live your lives, you have your future ahead of you. Had he known he could he'd be on a path to the NFL he probably would not have settled down.
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by D and T
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01/04/08 08:47 AM
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We knew it ALLL along. She is just to big and unattractive to hold the interest of a future NFL star. We called this story at the start of the season. I mean..LOOK at her?
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by Lisa
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01/04/08 08:20 AM
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She is obviously upset and ill advised. If you did do his wk shush up that makes you equally wrong..Dont screw up hes reputation as it may affect his earning potential which you and the kids will benefit from. Dont be shrt sighted jst gt a good lawy
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by John
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01/04/08 08:14 AM
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If true, a sad tale indeed.
Certainly it isn't guilt that led Mrs. Moffitt to her moment of moral clarity.
I glad Mrs. Moffitt doesn't work for me as I could never trust her and truthfully would find a way to fire her.
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