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Flip side is told in french fry flap

A police officer's report says the 75-year-old woman was mean and nasty.

By WILL VAN SANT, Times Staff Writer
Published January 22, 2008


A police officer's report says Jean Merola, 75, in line at McDonald's was mean and nasty.
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Could Jean Merola, the grandmother taken to jail after a wait for McDonald's fries deteriorated into a clash with a Clearwater police officer last week, be a belligerent troublemaker and not the victim of overzealous policing?

The officer's report on the dust-up, released Monday, describes a lawman struggling to persuade an unhinged woman to be sensible. At one point in the report, the officer said the 5-foot-6, 150-pound Merola moved toward him "with clenched fists, saying, 'You can't arrest me.'"

After absorbing extreme verbal abuse, the report suggests, the officer was left with no option but to arrest the 75-year-old woman.

Hogwash, Merola said Monday. Officer Matthew Parco's report is full of lies, she insisted.

"Boy, he needs a polygraph test," she said.

The story of Merola's encounter with Parco, which has the Clearwater widow fielding calls from media nationwide, began Thursday at a McDonald's on Hercules Avenue in Clearwater.

Around 4 p.m., Merola, who had no criminal record, was making her regular visit to the drive-through window for a coffee and some french fries without salt. Because the fries were a special request, Merola pulled her gray Lincoln Town Car forward to an area of striped asphalt where customers are asked to wait when their orders will be some minutes.

According to Parco's report, the first detailed account offered by Clearwater police, the officer was behind Merola. After getting his drink from the window, he tried to drive around her but the Town Car blocked his way. Seeing her window open, he called out for her to move the car.

After she did nothing but turn and give Parco a look, the officer approached and again asked her to move, according to the report.

Parco said she was immediately belligerent, telling him she could not move because the McDonald's people told her to wait there. She then warned Parco about the way he was speaking to her, the report states, and suggested he had better watch out because she knew the police chief.

Parco said Merola continued to yell after receiving her food, demanding that Clearwater police Chief Sid Klein respond to the scene. He pleaded with her to move for about 20 minutes, but she refused to budge, Parco said.

All the while, she flung insults his way, saying "You are an evil man," and "I hope you're a Christian, because you are going to hell!" according to the report.

Parco said he told Merola she was causing a disturbance that could potentially cost McDonald's business, then gave her the option of going to jail or moving along. She continued to be combative, so Parco cuffed Merola and put her in his cruiser.

She was jailed on a disorderly conduct charge and released on her own recognizance around 7:40 p.m.

A McDonald's manager backed Parco's account, according to the report. Laura Nicholson said Merola refused to move her car, was rude to Parco and told the officer he could not arrest her.

Merola remembers a very different scene. She admitted to calling Parco names after he suggested that she may be demented and would need to be held under the state's Baker Act. But she denied telling the officer he was evil and going to hell.

She also said she didn't move toward Parco with clenched fists or claim any pull with Clearwater's police chief.

"Those are the biggest lies that somebody could tell," she said. "I'm really hurt and irritated. Now I'm mad. I would love to meet him face to face."

In Merola's account, things got off to a poor start when Parco repeatedly honked his horn at her. She remembers wondering why he was honking at her and being angry that Parco didn't first come up to speak to her if there was a problem.

Parco's report doesn't mention any honking. But Ann Lansberry remembers it.

Lansberry and her daughter were in front of Merola in the drive-through lane that afternoon. After getting their double cheeseburgers, they pulled into a nearby parking space to eat.

Lansberry, 60, said she heard someone behind her laying on the horn, then looked back to see Parco at Merola's window. She could hear the gruff tone Parco was using and his raised voice, but not his precise words, she said.

"He could have approached her nicely, in my opinion," Lansberry said. "He was a little hyper because he couldn't get his car out."

Lansberry and her daughter left a few minutes later and didn't witness the remainder of the dispute.

Clearwater police say they are reviewing how Parco handled himself. The 30-year-old officer joined the force in December of 2006 and has no disciplinary history in his file.

Meanwhile, Tallahassee attorney Steve Andrews said he'll help Merola fight the disorderly conduct charge for free. Andrews, 53, grew up around the Merola family and has known Jean Merola since he was a kid. Andrews wants the charges dropped and an apology from police.

"She's tough. I could see her standing up to the police," he said.

Times staff writer Jonathan Abel contributed to this report. Will Van Sant can be reached at vansant@sptimes.com or 727-445-4166.

[Last modified January 22, 2008, 00:04:44]


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by Dan 02/05/08 11:48 AM
All you had to do was move forward a little, lady, so the rest of the line could get their food. Your selfish antics got you what you deserved. Enjoy your no-salt fries.
by Lori 02/04/08 02:19 PM
I thought the police now have video attached to their vehicles. Was that activated?? If not why??
by Todd 02/04/08 01:47 PM
Glad amendment 1 passed. If this officer has time to arrest the elderly then Clearwater has to many officers.
by Shannon 02/04/08 01:15 PM
At first I thought why would an officer even bother arresting an old lady, but after reading the police report, SHE TOTALLY DESERVED WHAT SHE GOT. I do believe the police abuse their power at times, but not in this case. I doubt she learned a lesson.
by Steve 02/04/08 12:07 PM
Standing order to my troops as Chief - Enforce the law upon anyone that invokes my name in defense of sanctionable behavior.
by Denise 02/04/08 12:05 PM
no wonder our kids do not respect teachers, police, laws. Look what the elderly are teaching them. Read the report and witness report. The woman deserved it. What is so hard about listening to manager and police?
by frank 02/04/08 11:54 AM
THE POLICE RIGHT OR WRONG MADE A BAD SITUATION WORSE.POOR PUBLIC RELATIONS SO WHEN INFO IS NEEDED IN THE FUTURE THE PUBLIC MIGHT NOT BE FORTHRIGHT .PUT YOUR SIREN ON IF YOU WANT TO CLEAR TRAFFIC. THE POLICE ARE NEVER WRONG NEVER!
by rlm 01/25/08 06:54 PM
if u dont know ur car is blocking traffic u shouldent have a drivers licence
by Jonathan 01/25/08 02:22 PM
It would be nice if both sides could come out of their corners, square off, shake hands, and when the bell rings, just go home. Lady, calm down, and Officer, learn to respect your elders and maybe go after real crimes.
by A 01/24/08 05:05 PM
Unbelievable you people have no clue what you are talking about. This old woman got exactly what she deserved, yet once again the St Pete Times puts the officer in the wrong....imagine that!
by Keith 01/24/08 03:16 PM
Kudos to Mrs. Merola. Even after reading the details of Officer Parco's report, it's clear that not only are there omissions in "his side" of the the story, but the corroboration of witnesses seems to paint a clear picture that he was unjustified.
by tom 01/24/08 03:25 AM
Anoher example of a cop that's a power-hungry jerk! Take his badge and send send him back to his prior job as a grocery bagger.
by Wayne 01/24/08 12:09 AM
The officer honked his horn, waived his arms and yelled at her. His rage is what got her mad. She is just a throw back to an era when cops could control their emotions and treat elderly people with respect. Shame on the cop. Get some counselling.
by PFG 01/23/08 03:58 PM
The PO PO lie on a police report... NEVER!!! Gime me a break they do it all the time! Sue the JERK! Unecessary force and harrasment! Of the eldery at that! What an outstanding character this is! NOT!
by Mark 01/23/08 02:06 PM
I have been in that situation where somone behind me couldn't get by. But that was where they told me to park! To let traffic by I had to move up out of the designated area marked off. In fact I'm sure it was a McDonald's. USF area abt. 8 yrs ago.
by Sue 01/23/08 09:19 AM
What were they thinking, get on with real police work please. BTW Elmer quite rude to insult so many groups of people in one short sentence.
by alan smithee 01/23/08 07:36 AM
Since when do cops care how you park? They better get to any Wal-Mart lot -- lots of outlaws there not staying in the lines!
by Ellen 01/23/08 03:29 AM
Cuff me and stuff me stupid cops. I go to McDonald's a lot also. AND I always have a special order. Good grief. How would you like your own mom treated that way? There's a reason cops are called pigs. Oink Oink
by Marvin 01/22/08 10:01 PM
The problem with the new batch of cops is that a large majority are ex-military. They just don't adjust to civilian life, just barking orders and expecting people to jump. Just because somebody is ex-military, doesn't mean they would make good cop.
by Carol 01/22/08 08:36 PM
Obviously most of the people commenting on this incident haven't even read the police report. They form such strong opinions without knowing all the facts. I worry about so many people thinking they don't have to obey a police officer's orders.
by Carol 01/22/08 07:11 PM
Just because she's elderly does not give her the right to mouth off to the cop. Sure, maybe he could have handled it differently but on the other hand, he could have gotten an emergency call and had to leave. They owe each other an apology.
by Trap 01/22/08 06:11 PM
Cops get slammed when they enforce laws and when they don't enforce the laws. Which is it people? Can you imagine everyone challenging you about everything everyday where you work and still trying to accomplish something.
by Trap 01/22/08 06:07 PM
Man, it's no wonder this country is going to the garbage. No one respects the rules nor has any regard for the law. The cops can never win. People want rules but loathe the cops when they have to be enforced. Unbelievable.
by ML 01/22/08 06:03 PM
did any of you peabrains who call Parco a bully read the police report? she didn't wait 20 min for her food, they brought it to her after a few minutes, she continued to yell at Parco for 20 more min- the McDonald's emp said he did nothing wrong
by richard 01/22/08 05:19 PM
How much longer do we have hear about this?
by stu 01/22/08 04:59 PM
He should have opened her forehead with the butt of his revolver.that would get the old goat movin.I got your sid klein rite here you old bird
by Just Sayin' 01/22/08 04:29 PM
She sure looks mean and I wouldn't tangle with her but I sure didn't think you could arrest someone for yelling at you. So the next time my boss yells at me...?
by LR 01/22/08 03:58 PM
After this woman moved her car forward the first time, she was asked to pull up a little further by a McDonald's employee prior to the officer asking and she refused to do so. Witnesses have all stated this woman was angry! Got what she deserved!
by Jack 01/22/08 03:50 PM
My God! Where do the police have to draw a line in disorderly conduct of any individual no matter what age, gender, condition or circumstance? The ignorance of the woman and the alleged violation of the law officer should not be media exploited.
by Soxy 01/22/08 03:28 PM
The Baker Act threat is serious, I certainly hope the law isn't threatening that to people they encounter without just cause.
by gladys 01/22/08 03:19 PM
continue...move my car or else. I was trying to hurry but her yelling and threats made me nervues that I could not remember the pin # to ring the house. she was an a-hole. I did nothing to her but be in front of her at the gate. windwood oaks apts
by gladys 01/22/08 03:17 PM
I don't think the cops have this one. I went to pick up my kids at my ex husbands house, the officer that does her rounds in the complex was pissed that I could not get ringed in any faster. the lights were not working she yelled at me and told me to
by AL 01/22/08 03:13 PM
I sure hope the chief doesn`t give Barney a bullet to carry in his pocket. That would really be scarry.
by Soon 2 be Old Lady 01/22/08 03:07 PM
Elmer, leave the Scientologists out of this. Doesn't our police force have more to do than terrorize old ladies at fast food chains and Dunkin Donuts. Elmer what the hey does this have to do with Scientology anyway.
by J 01/22/08 03:07 PM
There are 3 or 4 ways in & out of this particular McDonalds. This was not preventing anyone from getting into the drive thru or lot, & you can go out another way. Everyone knows they tell you to pull up if waiting. If she was in the striped area...
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