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Search for missing woman, 86, widens across nation
Her daughter goes on TV shows, hands out fliers and advocates a silver alert.
By Richard Danielson, Times Staff Writer
Published March 4, 2008
A Pinellas County sheriff's helicopter searched parking lots, ponds and wooded areas for a missing Largo woman's car, but neither that nor a spattering of new tips panned out Monday. Mary Zelter, 86, has been missing since Feb. 26, when she signed herself out of the Regal Palms assisted living facility in Largo. About half an hour later, her credit card was used to buy about $30 worth of merchandise at the Albertsons grocery store at East Bay Drive and Belcher Road. She has not been seen since, nor have her bank or credit cards been used again. So while Zelter's daughter worked Monday to publicize her mother's case on the Today show and Good Morning America, she also prepared for the worst. "We feel now that we have a pretty high risk that we lost our mom," said Mary Lallucci of Belleair. "How can she be alive if there's been no evidence of her for six days?" Lallucci said, " I don't know that," but added that it's a possibility her family is getting ready to face. Over the weekend, Lallucci and her family marshaled scores of volunteers to pass out thousands of fliers. That generated some tips - such as a possible sighting at a Publix in Palm Harbor - but no solid leads. Zelter, a retired registered nurse and travel agent, has lived at Regal Palms about four months. She suffers from some near-term memory loss and high blood pressure, but her family said she functioned well enough to be allowed to sign herself out of the assisted living facility. Before moving into Regal Palms, Zelter lived in Venice in Sarasota County. Authorities believe she might try to go back, so they have sent bulletins there, too. So far, police have "no indication that there was any foul play or crimes involved in her disappearance," Largo police Lt. Michael Loux said. One thing they don't know, however, is just what happened at Albertsons. Police are not saying what Zelter purchased, but they also haven't seen whether she was alone or was being followed in the store. The store has video surveillance, but because of an apparent problem with the system, the store did not have usable video of Zelter's purchase, Loux said. *** As they have tried to publicize their mother's disappearance, Zelter's family members have pointed out that Florida, unlike states like Texas and Illinois, does not have a version of the amber alert system known as "silver alert." On Monday, family members talked up the idea of a silver alert system with the offices of two Pinellas legislators, Lallucci said. Officials with the Florida Department of Elder Affairs and Florida Department of Law Enforcement were not familiar Monday with any past proposals to create a silver alert system. And, they said, it might be harder to tell in cases of some adults who have disappeared just how alarmed the community and law enforcement should be. "With children, you know they're missing because they're supposed to be with someone," said Frank Penela, spokesman for the Florida Department of Elder Affairs. As of Monday, the Florida Department of Law Enforcement had been notified of 424 missing people older than 60 statewide, FDLE spokeswoman Kristen Perezluha said. That's not all the missing older people in the state. Rather, it's just the total cases that local law enforcement agencies have reported to the FDLE. *** In addition to some states' silver alert programs, at least one private organization stands ready to raise alarms about missing elderly people. A Child Is Missing, a national, nonprofit organization based in Fort Lauderdale, responds to law enforcement requests to send out automated telephone bulletins about missing children, elderly and disabled people and college students missing from campus. The organization responds only to requests from law enforcement agencies and sends recorded messages about missing people to listed telephone numbers in the area where the person disappeared. Depending on the area to be covered, the nonprofit can send out a few dozen calls or thousands. In one Las Vegas case, it sent out tens of thousands of calls in four different waves, said communications director Todd DeAngelis. "Anytime our phone rings and it's law enforcement on the other end of the line" with someone missing from one of those four groups, he said, "we are certainly there to help." How to help: Have you seen this woman? Mary Gill Zelter, 86, is about 5 feet 3, has a thin build and white hair. Her car is a 2003 Chrysler Sebring convertible, white with a black top, with Florida tag CZ 103 and a small European flag decal on the rear bumper. Largo police ask anyone who has information to call (727) 587-6728 or 587-6730.
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by Suze
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03/05/08 11:28 PM
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I grew up in this state. No it's not perfect. So what? If it is so awful why did all these people move here from up north? Leave if you don't like the drivers here. Go back up north. Otherwise show some respect for this family. If you can muster it.
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by Suze
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03/05/08 11:26 PM
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Just because someone is diagnosed with near term memory loss doesn't mean they are demented. They show some mild symptoms. Not off to the Alzheimer's Ward yet! This is tragic and sad. These folks lost their Mom and Dad in 4 months of each other.
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by JB
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03/05/08 02:31 PM
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Yes,she still had a drivers license and a car//WELCOME TO FLORIDA,WHERE NOTHING IS DONE UNTIL SOMEONE DIES//I LOVE THIS STATE AND ALL THE MORONS WHO RUN IT//BECAUSE ANYTHING GOES//AND YOU GET AWAY WITH EVERTHING
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by Paul
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03/05/08 12:35 PM
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Jackie-I don't think she should have been driving but that being said you have the facts wrong. The assisted living facility is on East Bay drive in the heart of Largo and is nowhere near a boat ramp. She drove to Island Estates by Clearwater Beach.
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by Dave
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03/05/08 09:59 AM
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We would be better off keeping teens off the roads rather than seniors...they top the list of "Dumb" & demented drivers!
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by angel
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03/05/08 09:54 AM
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Very sad to hear that she was found dead. but you know i think that silver alert is a really good idea they do it for kids so why not for the elderly too? i would sign that petition in a heartbeat so when you do it i will be looking to sign.
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by suzanne
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03/05/08 09:19 AM
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We would need fences everywhere, she could have drove into a house, killed a child, drove to another state,and never known it.Families need to take responsibility since the state won't change driving laws.Meanwhile stay alert on roads for the confuse
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by Ernie
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03/05/08 05:24 AM
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It's amazing how insensitive people can be during a very, sorrowful time for the Mrs. Zelter's family. C'mon people. Have some dignity and respect for Mrs. Zelter and her family. Be nice and considerate of the pain this family is enduring.
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by Doug
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03/04/08 10:15 PM
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I live in sarasota & know an 91 yr old who had to go to 2 eye drs to pass eye exam and then could barely walk into dmv-used cane and had to sit down out of breathe and dmv gave him dr lic and family lets him drive. (And he totalled his last car)!!!!!
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by km
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03/04/08 08:52 PM
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AK had the best comments. Thank you for standing up for Mrs. Zelter. She was not this demented woman, who could not function. Just because someone is living at an ALF does not mean they cannot live a fulfilling life. Thank you AK.
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by Jackie Powley
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03/04/08 08:06 PM
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If you have a place for the" ASSISTED LIVING ON THE END OF A PUBLIC BOAT LAUNCH YOU ARE BOUND TO HAVE AN ACCIDENTAL TURN OFF. OR STRAIGHT OFF!! " MIND YOU THEY ARE UNDER THE CARE OF A FACILITY YOU HOPE WILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR ELDERLY!
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by Michael
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03/04/08 07:23 PM
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OK...wow..these comments are scary! Um...when is the last time you read about a 21 year old driving off the end of a boat ramp thinking it was a road? She was too old to be driving and too demented to be in assisted living... The family is to blame.
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by Kurt
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03/04/08 07:20 PM
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Dawn - Do the research. It happens so much that I predicted this the very day I first heard about her disappearance! VERY predictable. Bottom line - she had NO business behind the wheel of a car...Luckily no one else was killed!
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by Sonnie
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03/04/08 07:17 PM
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Sorry to say, but my first thought is What the H-E-double hockey sticks was this lady doing driving!? And secondly, sorry for the fam that she's dead, but glad she didn't take some innocent pedestrain or bicyclist out with her while she was driving!
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by Murph Joe
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03/04/08 05:45 PM
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Cappy and I were best friends and roommates in nursing school. She and her late husband (Red) were Godparents to my son. I,m so sad. My prayers are with her family.
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by Cia
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03/04/08 04:36 PM
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I wonder how many tourists have driven their car down the ramp and died.
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by Josh
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03/04/08 03:55 PM
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Is there a stop sign at the end of that road? If not why don't they just put one up?
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by AK
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03/04/08 03:24 PM
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This was more than likely just an accident that could have and has happened to others in that exact same location as recently as a month or so ago. Nothing to do with age or a perceived illness.
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by AK
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03/04/08 03:22 PM
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#1) She didn't have advance, severe, moderate or even light dementia. She suffered from near-term memory loss on extremely rare occasions. This was diagnosed as the on set of dementia.
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by AK
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03/04/08 03:22 PM
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#2) She was living alone in Venice after her husband died four months ago. She moved to Largo to be closer to her daughter who lives there now. The "assisted" part of her living was probably to provide a roof over her head, meals and a social outlet.
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by AK
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03/04/08 03:21 PM
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#3) The boat ramp where she was ultimately found is notorious for exactly these kind of accidents. Another person drove in to the water from the same boat ramp just a month or so ago but was able to escape. There used to be a gate there. The ramp is
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by AK
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03/04/08 03:21 PM
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#4) She was medically cleared and only on prescriptions for high blood pressure from doctors, the care giving staff that deal with the elderly and her own family. There is no mention of any previous vehicular incidents.
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by Ann
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03/04/08 03:15 PM
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My bleesing to the family. I am not putting the blame on anyone. I am sure the family is hurting so deeply. My granddaughter asked me this morning was I crying and my response to her was, "somewhat, I to have a mother 89 years old", God bless.
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by Rugger
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03/04/08 02:37 PM
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To Chris, according to other news reports just a month or so ago another person drove off the end of the road at that very location. In fact, it appears to be a common accident and one the neighbors in that area are upset over. There used to a gate.
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by Paul
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03/04/08 02:34 PM
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Why is an 86 year old with advanced dementia driving in the 1st place. It's a very sad story but at least she only harmed herself - she very easily could have taken other innocent lives with her.
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by tom
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03/04/08 02:31 PM
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The family should blame itself. What was a lady with Dementia checking herself out of an assisted care facility and be allowed to drive. Shame on the family.
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by Joe & Murph LaVigne
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03/04/08 01:14 PM
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The LaVigne Family's Thoughts and prayers are with you. We'll keep our eyes & ears open. Hoping for contact from Cappi in Rochester, N.Y LOL Murph & Joe
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by Tony
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03/04/08 01:01 PM
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The street doesn't "end" in the water. There is a boat ramp that she may have gone down thinking it was the end of the road (no pun intended). We may never know what actually happened.
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by Dawn
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03/04/08 12:59 PM
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Everyone I know said she would probably be found in water with her car. How common is this kind of accident?
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by Carol
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03/04/08 12:56 PM
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When my parents reach this frail age; I'm taking their keys - period. I know it will be hard, but it's for their own good and the safety of all.Once a problem has been diagnosed-always a problem. What if, god forbid she hit other people and more died
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by S.
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03/04/08 12:51 PM
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I feel horrible about what happened to this elderly lady; however, I question..why the heck was she still driving?What is the matter with her family and her dr?They don't hide the fact that she had advanced dementia!!?? THIS COULD OF BEEN AVOIDED!
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by patric
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03/04/08 12:41 PM
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what a way to go! i hope that when i'm 86, florida law will not allow 86-year-old assisted living citizens to drive away as if they have no care in the world. if you see a 'top of the world' plate.....RUN AWAY!
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by james
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03/04/08 12:23 PM
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How can you immediatly rule out "foul play"
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by Marcy
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03/04/08 11:53 AM
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My Prayers go out to this family. Also having elderly parents, my concern is mirrored in this family. For others, please consider a "Lojack" tracking service as a auto locator to protect family members.
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by Laura
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03/04/08 11:29 AM
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I am so very sorry to hear about Cappy. My prayers are with her family.
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