Its her party
By JUDY STARK, Times Homes Editor
© St. Petersburg Times, published February 10, 2001
Recently we asked Ariel Choi, a member of the St. Petersburg Times' X-team, to take on the role of party planner and show us how to put on a Valentine get-together that would appeal to a group of girls like herself.
Ariel is an 11-year-old fifth-grader at Hunter's Green Elementary School in New Tampa. The X-team is a group of students, elementary through high-school age, who report and write for the Times' Xpress pages, which appear on Mondays in the Floridian section.
First there was a shopping trip to Party City on Fowler Avenue in Tampa, and another to a Publix near the Chois' home in New Tampa. We set a budget of around $100. There were also sessions with her mother, Julia, and her sister, Lauren, 13, to make favors for goodie bags and plan games.
What Ariel had in mind was "an afternoon party. I don't like evening parties unless they're sleepovers," she said.
Where adults might envision a tea party for a young girls' Valentine celebration, all lace and ruffles, Ariel had other ideas. "Kids like pinatas," she said. "Lots of balloons and touchy junk. We're not going to be rowdy, but it shouldn't be one of those parties where you can't spill."
As she walked the aisles at Party City, she had clear ideas in mind about what would work and what wouldn't.
She chose a tablecloth and napkins in solid red. "Nothing flowered," she said.
Stemmed plastic glasses? "Too formal." She chose goblets with a low plastic foot to serve ice cream, and tumblers for punch.
Confetti? "Too messy."
Ariel dreamed up a menu for her guests. "A heart-shaped cake in pink or red," she said, acknowledging that "it might seem disgusting to some people." She thought about red bread for finger sandwiches (filled with chicken salad or cream cheese or cucumbers) or red tortilla chips. Sugar cookies in Valentine shapes; decorating them with frosting could be one of the party activities. Strawberry and vanilla ice cream. Red punch, poured over ice cubes made from multicolored punch.
On party day, the dining area was a-shimmer with red and white. Balloons crowded the ceiling, their long red ribbon tails hanging down to just above the girls' heads. The girls had tied white tulle bows trimmed in red rickrack to the backs of the chairs. A vase of red tulips stood at one corner.
The table was covered in red, with red napkins, plastic forks and spoons. ("There's so much red!" Julia Choi remarked.) Ariel used white doilies as place mats, with red paper plates. There were bowls of red, pink and white M&Ms and plates of richly decorated heart-shaped cookies.
The menu had undergone a few changes. The Chois special-ordered red and pink bread from Publix at New Tampa Center on Bruce B. Downs Boulevard, which they cut into heart shapes for sandwiches. Ariel and Lauren inform folks that, despite its scarlet appearance, it tastes just like regular bread and worked fine for the sandwiches, whose fillings turned out to be turkey and cheese or bologna and cheese.
Ariel had bought a Valentine garland on shopping day but didn't figure out what to do with it until the decorating was almost done, when she decided to weave it in and out of the chandelier above the table. It provided a good link between the flock of balloons hovering over the table and the sea of red on the table itself.
"At a party, it's better to have more than less," Ariel said. "If I was invited, I'd rather have more than less, with lots of things kids would like."
Ariel's party advice
Watch the color scheme. Originally Ariel planned on red, white and pink balloons, but realized that everything else was so red, pink wouldn't work. She stuck to red and white balloons.
Gifts for the guests
The goodie bags for guests were actually goodie boxes, cereal boxes Ariel and her family cut down and decorated with stylized faces of each guest and their names. They created a variety of favors:
What it cost
Here are some of the costs we incurred for the Valentine party:
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